In a monogamous relationship
Hello everyone,
I am a 27 year old Male, not looking for anything at the moment. I am very new to the BDSM community. I was raised in a very Christian home as a child so exploring any forms of sexuality was strictly out of the question. I had always repressed those feelings and desires until recently. I have been married to an amazing bi woman for 8 years. She has always been more open about her sexuality and desires. However when we got married she repressed her desire for a womans touch. I have recently encouraged her to start seeing other women again so that she may be able to have her needs met. Long story short it opened pandora's box and I came clean to my wife about my own desires. She was thrilled that I had been so open to her for the first time and sad for me that I had suppressed myself for so long. She has even been pushing me to explore those desires and I found myself here. So let's hope it all goes well. I dont want to go back into the box.
I am mostly a switch leaning towards sub. I love the thought of binding someone (man or woman) and pleasuring them for as long as they can stand before giving them their release. however when I sub there is no need to bind me. I can be as docile as you please. Though I would not deny you that pleasure.
Still exploring my limits and growing. Vaginal intercourse, pain, NO ONE UNDER AGE, scat/piss/spit, choking.
Everything is still all so new and shiny.