Psychology student. Made this profile a while back but never really used it.
This goes back to when I was in kindergarten. I know. I was inappropriately young when I first had my sadistic thoughts/impulses (in a way that pleased me sexually). So I would say that BDSM is a part of my identity. I think what I’m looking for is tpe (total power exchange). Three things I value the most in a sub: commitment, obedience and loyalty. Trust must be established before everything else.