lilunicorn

sub female

49

Single

Hmmm well I like playing video games, good horror and action movies and being outdoors with or without my dogs. I am into photography and like taking pictures of beautiful scenery and wildlife. I enjoy Greek and Roman mythology as well as poetry. I enjoy being outside in the cool night starring up at the stars. I am pretty laid back and enjoy a good conversation with anyone who sends a message. Feel free to message me if you wish to know more.

In my opinion, a BDSM dynamic/relationship is built on 4 pillars which are trust, honesty, loyalty and communication. Then 3 pillars physical, mental/emotional and sensory.  Then 2 pillars, Dom/sub, Master/slave. Then 1 pillar, BDSM.  I was raised in a fifties mentality home. The woman knew her role and place. She looked to her man for guidance to lead her in the right direction. The structure and rules of a relationship is what I miss and yes the punishment when rules are not followed. I try to always keep an open mind when meeting new individuals. We all have to learn one another to find out our likes and dislikes. To explore each other's minds to find out what our deepest desires/fantasies are. We have all had previous experiences that were good and not so good. We learned and evolved from those experiences. When entering into a new dynamic/relationship start with a clean slate, give that person the opportunity to get to know you. If you don't try something, how will you know if you like or dislike something. For example, the cane, I am not a fan of the cane it reminds of the time my grandmother told me to go outside and grab a switch. Let's just say I learned my lesson. But if a Dom were to communicate how he would use it in a pleasurable way say teasing and or light impact, I may change my outlook about the cane. It's all in which the message is conveyed and delivered. I believe once the mind submits the body, heart and soul will follow. To me BDSM is so much more than sex, it's the mental aspect that I enjoy. As well as pleasing and making my Dom happy. To hear my Dom say "good girl" is my reward. Anything more feel free to ask.

Anything illegal. Water sports, scat, children, animals

Returned to The Cage after an unpleasant experience with a Dom. Took the time to reflect and learn from that experience. Updated profile and put some thought into it. Even though I felt like I was back in high school standing in front of the class trying to give a presentation about me, lol.

Aug 29, 2024

Apr 27, 2019