Binghamton, New York, United States
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
"The books are whispering. I hear nothing, but she does." In the Library by Charles Simic

I am a librarian (yes, really, with a degree and everything), a geek, an anthropologist (I study fringe religious movements, especially ones with unusual female roles), a dancer, a cosplayer, a SCAdian, a light saber aficionado, a comfortably out bisexual, a masochistic little, a switch, a mother, and a wife (also, obviously, a member of team Oxford Comma ;) ).

I've recently moved to the Finger Lakes region of NY and would love to make a few friends! That said, I married my Dom over 20 years ago ("I'll take kink cliches for 500, Alex") and we are still happily married and enthusiastically involved with the BDSM community (although having kids certainly changed the shape of that involvement. Okay, to be honest, it changed my own shape a bit too. Maybe more than a bit. But that's the joy of not being dead in a box, right?) so let's see if we get each other's movie references, laugh at the same memes, and swoon over the same foods before exploring more personal play.
Update date
Wednesday, January 29, 2020
Member since
Sunday, May 5, 2019
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