shyvirgin

sub male

Single

28 [M4F] #Norway/Anywhere. Soft and quirky Christian looking for his non-drinking Christian Domme and life-partner.

Hey there!
Obviously the title is serious, but that is because I want to be clear with my intentions: to find a life partner. I am seeking something serious, long term and hopefully life-long. That said, I'm not expecting to jump into anything right away but to simply start out chatting and see if we match and there is a connection and take it from there. :) With that cleared up…

Here is me:

I'm a 28 yo Norwegian with lots of love but sadly no-one to give it to (yet). Physically I’m a 6’3" (190 cm) tall, pale, blue-eyed blonde with fairly regular looks. Personality-wise I’m soft, patient, loyal and supportive. I am a Christian and the faith is important to me, but I also clearly long for a Domme to control, take care of me, and for me to support her. As such, I’m looking for someone who like me, values both. I know it’s a rare combination, but being an outlier I guess I'm simply just looking for another? I'm also looking for someone who (like me) doesn't drink or do drugs. It's just something I've never been a fan of or been comfortable with. I’m looking for monogamous and long term obviously. This is important to me.

Personality:

I'm a person who connects with few, but connects deep with those I do. Stable, loyal, honest, in offer of support and I’ll happily hear your rants. I’m extremely loving and caring to those close to me although I do take a while to open up. However I will tell you my actual thoughts on your dress. :P

I could also be described as the blushy, cute, and quicky/nerdy type… with a dark edge. I have a pretty chill approach to life believing in doing what makes you happy. Im into books, board games, puzzles, video games, fantasy and so on. I'm also down for outdoors and playing sports, and like to be active every now and then and play disc golf amongst others. I like to joke, both innocently and more edgy, and it's simply part of the package with me. A note is that with the exception of CGL, Femdom and gender roles, I do have fairly traditional Christian beliefs.

Our Relationship:

It would be great if we had somewhat similar values as that would give us a good foundation for how we envision our family life. It would also be cool with a few interests in common, but what is more important is that we vibe and get along. It'd be great if you also have a dominant streak, so awesome if you like to take a little charge in both the relationship and bed. That you as a dom set rules, expectations and rewards for me. And if you love cuddles (I'm fan of the sappy stuff, too). I’d describe my ideal Domme as a Mommy-domme type with a mean streak (Im very kinky and into a lot of freaky stuff so do not be scared to share something that you are into), but find that kink comes second, and that roles will develop naturally based on how we get along and how we compliment each other. My dream is for you to be fine with and even encourage my softer traits and allow me to be my warm and clumsy self, rather than an alpha-type handyman. And for you to perhaps be more of the decisive type? I’d love to discuss and explore our faith together and have it as a cornerstone in the life that we (hopefully) end up building!

I'm happy to verify by exchanging pictures once we get to know each other a little and hopefully you are too. Even though chemistry is a big part there is no denying that physical attraction still is a factor!

Lifestyle:

I didn't initially include this in my post as I feel an obligation to include it so as to not lead someone on falsely. I’ve been living with Conversion Disorder since I was 18. Briefly explained: my nervous system is a little off, and I occasionally have physical reactions from stress and mental strain. I can pretty much live as normal, but do need to live a bit of a calmer lifestyle. I still have light symptoms, but they are much rarer and milder than they used to be. I am soft, but I am strong mentally. I own my own home and I am doing okay financially. I’m completing my master’s degree to achieve my goal of becoming a part-time teacher. My health may prevent me from working full-time, but I will most likely be able to have a part-time job with partial Disability support. I am ready to be your partner and start a family.

Relocation:

Ideally speaking, I would want to stay here. That is because I know Norway is a great country, there are decent jobs and wages here and I am in a position where I would be able to help you relocate. I also have a good support network here that would gladly welcome you with open arms. That said, I am not totally opposed to other arrangements if you are from an English speaking country with the means to help me relocate. Long distance is never easy but I think with proper communication, willingness to sacrifice and commitment it is more than possible. When it comes to visiting, I'm more than happy to make a trip (or more) to meet up, or even find solutions live abroad temporary if its needed as I am rather serious about this.

Anyway, if you've made it this far and you think we could hit it off (or have a friend that might), be sure to send me a message. I would love it if you also added a little introduction about yourself so I can learn a little about you as well!

Super kinky, orgasm denial, tease, mommy dom, watersport, cei, cfnm, facesitting, chains, handcuffs+++. Open to most things not pain related. :)

Anything beyond light pain, scat, cuchkold and extreme stuff.

My one deal breaker thou I dont want anyone who drinks or is not a Christian. Sry, just not me. If this strikes a chord hmu. :)

May 14, 2019