I met my koa on Cage in July of 2021 and, after spending far too long being long distance, we are now happily living together, married. and practicing a 24/7 dynamic that includes all of each of our many sides.
Our marriage and relationship is 100% monogamous, as is our dynamic. We are not interested in adding others or entering dynamics with others.
That said, we have both agreed to allow the following as long as our individual boundaries are respected and there is disclosure and open discussion with each other:
- Having educational conversations with others to gain experience.
- Online only role playing with others in the lifestyle for fun or ideas.
- In person non-penetration play with others as long as both of us are present and/or involved.
Please respect our choices and boundaries.
Me in six S words... strong, smart, serious, silly , and (according to my koa) short and stubby lol.
My names ... Juicy Jess, Mama Bear JJ, House Durga (joint), and back to Mama Bear JJ again so that my koa could have his wish of me joining him in chat.
My roles ... Mommy, Domme, mentor on kinks and fetishes, and an occasional switch for learning purposes or my personal enjoyment of kinks and fetishes not traditionally associated with the D side of the slash.
My experience ... Kinks/fetishes have been a part of my life since my teens after experiencing sexual abuse. It made me curious, not ashamed, and I used that curiosity to build my knowledge of the many kinks and fetishes that are available, including the motivation and cognition behind them through my undergrad psychology degree.
With this knowledge, and the personal interests it uncovered, I officially entered the lifestyle and began seeking out and experiencing those interests with others around six years ago.
I started as a Domme, then spent a year learning submission from a Master who I will forever be grateful for. He gave me a deeper appreciation for the mental aspects of roles, protocols, kinks, and fetishes. He also gave me my little monkey of a middle, a safe space to work through past trauma and stress when I needed it, and a desire to take on the role of Mommy.
I also took on the role of a mentor to others along the way in regards to uncovering, exploring, and expanding upon their kinks and fetishes.