MrSolo

dom male

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In a polyamorous relationship

I'm a 64-year-old Dom/Master with over almost 49 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I am in a polyamorous relationship with my partner who spent years as my slave. She has transitioned to a situational Fem-Domme and plays from time to time. I'm seeking the right slave to join our household and serve me sexually, playfully and domestically. Due to some health issues, I have to take medication that has left me with ED; However, I use a strap-on for penetration and I love playing with toys on my plaything(s). The plus side of using a strap-on is that I never cum too early or go limp at just the wrong time. I can provide the length and girth my sub needs and more. I can even use a double-penetrating or vibrating dildo with my harness for a special treat.
I tied up and teased my first steady girlfriend when I was 16. Dominance came as naturally as breathing. With almost half a century of living the Dominant-life, there is nothing, that I'm aware of that I have not done for my submissives over my lifetime. I believe that, in reality, a true Dominant actually serves the needs and safety of the submissive. The submissive GIVES what she or he wishes to their Dominant. The Dominant that takes from a submissive without permission is in the WRONG and is not a true and caring Dominant. If my submissive is a masochist I act as an appropriately safe and sane sadist; If my submissive is a sensualist I will tease and please her. I am dedicated to providing any sensation my submissive needs. HER NEEDS ARE PARAMOUNT and it's my job as her Dominant/Master to provide her needs.
I and my partner founded the first BDSM association in our state and were listed as a resource in the book "Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns". We hosted teaching sessions, brought in speakers and provided play-spaces and play-parties.
I created leather toys, tools, harnesses, and clothing. I have built BDSM furniture and restraining pieces like St. Andrew's crosses and spanking benches. I've taught techniques from flogging to fire-play.

My partner has expressed interest in bringing a She-male into our poly-family for herself. I will encourage her to make a profile for herself.

BDSM is how I live my life and my life is devoted to my subs/slaves and BDSM education. Over the years I have Mastered 7 slaves, three of whom lived with us 24/7.

My hard limits are simple. No pedophilia.
My soft limits are dictated by my sub but I shy away from scat and extreme permanent physical mutilation; However, I can be flexible if something extreme is the deepest desire of the submissive. As an example, I would not normally be involved in branding but I studied the methodology and techniques of branding for a submissive who had a deep need for a brand. I believe that almost anything can be negotiated to be performed in a safe and sane manner.

What's new? well, we currently live in North-Western Idaho. We moved here for family reasons a couple of years ago. We plan to move to the Portland Oregon area in the spring for the more liberal and alt-lifestyle welcoming attitude of the area.

Nov 21, 2019

Jul 1, 2019