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volchara
Florissant, Colorado, United States
volchara
Gender
Male
Voice
Age
57
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
Layered....who knew. Dom with Daddy tendencies, Feral, Sadist. A smart ass, sarcastic, reasonably intelligent, and a firm believer in learning and researching.
BDSM and me
Been in the lifestyle for over 15 years. Which doesn't make me an expert, only a little experienced.
I may reach out to you .....it doesn't mean I'm hitting on you....I may just like a pic, something you said in your profile or any number of random things that caught my attention.
For those of you that are new to the lifestyle...I would suggest two things.
1. Take your time.....there is a lot to learn and discover in this life
2. Question.....if someone doesn't want to answer questions or doesn't want you to learn, grow and explore that might be a red flag.
My personal opinion...your milage may vary....is that the more experienced members of the community have a responsibility to look after ( not take advantage of ) the new blood entering the community. That doesn't mean offer to mentor or teach as a way to catch the newbies before anyone else does.
I may reach out to you .....it doesn't mean I'm hitting on you....I may just like a pic, something you said in your profile or any number of random things that caught my attention.
For those of you that are new to the lifestyle...I would suggest two things.
1. Take your time.....there is a lot to learn and discover in this life
2. Question.....if someone doesn't want to answer questions or doesn't want you to learn, grow and explore that might be a red flag.
My personal opinion...your milage may vary....is that the more experienced members of the community have a responsibility to look after ( not take advantage of ) the new blood entering the community. That doesn't mean offer to mentor or teach as a way to catch the newbies before anyone else does.
Limits
U, dat, or any other bastardized use of English.
Update date
Jan 10, 2020
Member since
Jul 14, 2019