In a monogamous relationship
Unhappily married with a sexual appetite to be either submissive or dominant. I started exploring this side about 3+ years ago, with both males and females - I enjoy pleasing my partner. I can take a controlling role or play submissive (more typical) - and would really like to experience more than one partner at a time.
I'm open to cyber, Kik, etc. or meeting in persons as I do travel occasionally. Perfer you be in the Midwest. I am a Switch male and relatively new to this, but am excited to try new things.
Not into severe pain or humiliation or anything disgusting (sorry) - but, as I said I'm new and would likely open to trying things.