I don't want to write for three hours in this box and you don't want to read that much anyway. I'll try to make it quick: I love communication. Talking, getting to know people, what they like what they dont and what drives them further is everything I am about. The more I know a submissive, the more I can push them and find out everything I need to know. So, if you would like to strike up a conversation, don't hesitate.
I am a strong believer in balance, and time. I am no longer very interested in short term or one time sessions. I like to get to know people strongly, over long periods. While I may be able to engage in many styles, I do prefer the deeper, more structured elements of the lifestyle.
Things should be earned, of course. No matter how giving a submissive is, I think that a dominant should work just as hard to prove that they are worth that submission. That being said, once a connection is made, it should be strong, complete.
You can say that I am a fairly serious person, I do have a playful side, it takes awhile to get to know. I have a soft side as well, though its mostly used in connection with my darker side.
I started when I was 15, mostly playing by myself because finding a partner at that time/age was difficult. I stared out a submissive, actually. But I quickly found that my wants outpaced the abilities of my dominants. I quickly found myself more teaching that actually serving. Since about...23, I have been primarily dominant. I do not switch.
I own equipment and have a good deal of in person experience to add to my abilities as an online dominant.