I am Daddy Dom in training and always will be. I say this because to think you know everything about this lifestyle is impossible you can always learn a new skill or a knew way to do something.
I am looking for the right person(s) to fill my life with love and kids someday soon. I have fetish of breeding and caring for the family like a good pack leader.
The dominant side of me comes natural. I have been in life style most of my life and didn't know it. I found the lifestyle back in early 2018 and have been hardcore learning since. I see myself as one that can learn and take some control over the right person that is willing to allow me to have that role. In this role I will guild them, keep them safe, and give them the chance to learn what and who they are. I will be there for them and allow them to cry on my shoulder, lift them up when they need it, and push them as needed to make them a stronger and better person. I enjoy helping any and all learn what they can become both in and out of the lifestyle.
A quote from a book that I found has great meaning "There are different ways to be jealous. Think about it. One is based on fear of loss, as in Sheila will take Mark away from me. My response to that is I don't think Sheila is like that; she's inclusive not exclusive. If she does, I guess Mark and I didn't have that strong a tie between us; except I think we do. "A different kind of jealousy is based on the kind of game I think we're in. If I think we're in a zero-sum game, then if Sheila gets something, I don't, or vice versa. In this case, we're worried about love. If she gets a lot of love, I get very little. This is important, because we're NOT in a zero-sum game. I think that love expands as we do. I love both of you and Mark, and I'll love Sheila. By society's mores I'm supposed to only love one of you, but I love four of you. So why bother with that kind of jealousy? Just change your mindset. "Another way to look at jealousy is to think of its opposite, in this case the word is compersion. With jealousy, I get into a rage if I see you making love with somebody else; I want to inflict hurt and the pain I work myself up to feel. It's the opposite with compersion. If I see either of you making love with Mark, and I have, I feel good inside; I get a warm feeling and a flood of love because I love you both. I am glad that you two have connected and are sharing a moment. Do I want to join in? Maybe, but if I don't I trust that my time will come and hope you'll feel the same warm feelings when you see Mark and me. "Overall, I choose not to let jealousy into my mind. It's a learned response to various social situations. Society has taught us those negative response patterns, and they're piss poor responses. I choose to either not respond or react in a loving and positive way."
I have very few limits, these include soft limits of pee and knife play. Hard limits are scat, animals, blood, and permanent scares.
I am currently looking and hoping to find my life partners and yes I do mean poly relationship I know it's not the most popular life but I look at it financially today it takes the income of two sometimes 3 to support a family well especially with the rough times of 2020 and all the hell everyone's been thru.
I hope at least one of you out there is willing to stop by and say hiĀ