42 male, Switch that leans more toward the Dom side of things!
I am a gentle, loving, and caring, Switch/Dom but strict and stern when need be! Not being able to provide structure for a sub, or caring for one, takes all the structure outta my life! I'm also into the possibility of temporally handing the power to my sub every once and a while for a few acts, that will be discussed at a later time
I'm a construction worker by day and a bdsm fiend by night!!! I'm rather new, not that I'm not knowledgeable, just have not had as much hands on experience as i would like. About 95% of all my relationships were EXTRA VANILLA, and the other 5% i got to talk into trying a few things, once or twice... But that doesn't stop my stride i still research and gather all i can about the lifestyle.
A handful of years back, i was studying, practicing, searching for who i truly was... i tried different things from being a slave, sub, Dom, to even Daddy Dom, it all just didn't feel right. I mean, don't get me wrong there was aspects of every bit of it that i loved and excited me like no other. but still not 100% satisfied. I have this feeling of knowing, but not knowing.... Not knowing who or what i am, knowing damn well this is where i belong, because to me vanilla, just don't satisfy.
After talking with a friend, at one point, and realizing most of the time i love to dominate. But there are a small handful of guilty pleasures that i have to bow down, to be able to enjoy. At that point we figured out, I'm neither Dom nor sub therefor i am closest to switch, or at least that's just what I'm gonna call it for now. My story is far from over, so, ill know more later.............
I am a Switch leaning toward the Dominate side of the spectrum but, I am gentle, loving, and caring, but at the same time strict and stern when need be! Not being able to provide structure for a sub, or caring for one, takes all the structure outta my life, which in turn causes me to be lost!
I'm also into the possibility of temporally handing the power to my sub every once and a while for a few acts, that will be discussed at a later time.
Pain, and anything gross and/bathroom related!!!!