asubmissivetoy

sub gender fluid

38

In a polyamorous relationship

Currently looking for:
Friends. Always like meeting new people, especially those interested in kink/BDSM.

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Hello!
I’m a switch, but am currently mostly focused on my submissive side. May be willing to service top if I know you well, and we’ve discussed things at length. I don’t always interact with people I don’t know well easily, especially one on one. If you spot me at an event and want to talk, please come introduce yourself!I have close to 20 years of kink/BDSM experience across a range of interests, but I am always eager to learn more or something new, and adore sharing what I know as well. I have the amazingly good fortune to be part of a very supportive and loving polycule.

In the vanilla world:
I have a lot of interests and passions. I’m an avid gamer, and very into anything related to computers. I’m also very into music, with a pretty wide range of genres that I enjoy and listen to regularly. I’m very capable of geeking out over cars as well, and have been for as long as I can remember. I enjoy looking at art in pretty much any form, and in a perfect world, would never find enough downtime to spend reading. I enjoy seeing new places and am almost overly enthusiastic about food, especially if it’s something I haven’t tried before. I love just about all types of animals, and will often have to fight the urge to pet any and every dog I see. While I am an introvert, I have a pretty large friend group, and am always willing to meet new people.

I am a switch, but as stated above, I’m currently focusing more on my submissive side. Some life events have led to a place where I am able to really step away from the more dominant tendencies without feeling like I’m taking something away where it was needed.

I enjoy focusing a lot on tasks/service, and in giving up control of just about anything that the person topping me at the time enjoys having control of. I enjoy many aspects of chastity, bondage, having clothing options chosen for me, bathroom control, tease and denial, post orgasm torture/play, body worship, cum play, anal play/training and water sports. I’ve recently gotten more into exploring pain play, impact and CBT, and have come to find that I really enjoy the feeling of rope. Once in the right mindset, I can be put into a pretty decent sub space with some humiliation play as well. I get a lot out of focusing my time and energy into making the Dom/Domme/Top I’m with at the time feel good, while ignoring my own needs (sexually). I’ve started exploring my little and pet sides a bit more with people I’m very comfortable with.
I’m very interested in hypnosis play, but would need to get to know you pretty well before even considering exploring that.

Blood, scat, permanent body mod, anything illegal.

Mar 2, 2024

Dec 16, 2019