sub male

Chico, California, United States
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Looking for local Domme in Butte/Tehama California area.
About me: HI! I’m 34, married, and a switch. My wife and I live in a 24/7 DD/lg, have been into BDSM together for about 15 years now, and have been part of our local community for the last 2 years. We have a few play partners that we see periodically. I work in IT within the healthcare industry, enjoy music, gaming, reading, cars, building things with my hands, and exploring the outdoors. I’m 5 foot 9, and about 180lbs. What I’m looking for: A long term D/s relationship with someone local. I have tried online/long distance multiple times, and I’ve learned that I can’t go without being physical with someone. I understand that everyone has other things going on, and life can get in the way at times, but I know that a relationship, for me at least, will not last without being about to be around the other person. I also know that I’m not interested in a just play relationship. Ideally, we would get to know each other well, and spend time together outside of just play sessions. I would be looking to be submissive to you at least most of the time. Again, I understand life happens, and being in a 24/7 D/s relationship already, this would need some work and discussion to sort through. The short term D/s relationships I have tried have not been difficult to manage as far as expectations and what can and can’t be done. While I am not straight, and can find interest and attraction in just about every gender, I think at this point I would prefer a Domme, as I tend to be more attracted to the female form. Interests: Some things I have tried, and enjoy, include: Tease and denial, orgasm control, chastity, tasks (sexual and non-sexual), toys, bondage, light CBT, forced feminization, bathroom control, fluid play, pegging, foot/body worship, humiliation, sounding, e-stim. Some things I have interest in, but have not tried: Diet control, latex, assigned exercise schedules, pet play, cuckolding. Limits: Scat, anything illegal, obvious public play, financial domination.
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
Married, early 30's, switch. I am a 24/7 Dom to my wife, but am looking for a dominant myself to help look after my submissive side.

I enjoy gaming, reading, and music. I also enjoy pretty much anything to do with cars and computers.

Note: introduce yourself like your addressing a human being please. Otherwise you may not appreciate the response. Submissive or not, if we haven't spoken before then I expect something more then a basic, unimaginative introduction.

You can find me via FL as well, same username.
BDSM and me
13 years experience, wide range of kinks. As a sub I enjoy tease and denial, humiliation, tasks, bondage, receiving anal play of pretty much any kind, providing oral, steadfast rules, and anything I can do or provide to make my dominant happy. I do know that I need physical contact in a relationship, especially if boundaries are being pushed. As such, I'm not looking for anything online or long distance.
Blood, scat, permanent body mod, anything illegal.
Update date
Friday, June 26, 2020
Member since
Monday, December 16, 2019
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