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Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand
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62M married straight Dom Christchurch New Zealand seeking female sub, starting online
Seeking the female submissive needing to serve; littles, puppies most welcome. Honesty, Trust and Respect always. Married, without secrets. Real life, including experience in poly lifestyle. Ritual or Routine can be a source of great comfort and bring focus to a submissive. Tasks will be set to maintain focus. No submissive in My care will be allowed to fail .... you'll never be asked to do more than you're capable of doing, and doing it well. However, you'll also be pushed to be the best you can be. The Gift of submission you carry is more attractive than a pretty body with a poison mind. There is no place for any form of abuse. Happy to start online and see where this leads.
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
63 year old Dom in Christchurch, New Zealand, with decades of experience in the BDSM lifestyle stretching the imagination of female submissives.  I was turned to the Dark Side by a girlfriend while in My 20s. I thought what she required was what all submissive females needed: hard impact play and lots of it. After she left Me for a 'real' sadist, I very slowly developed My own style. I'm a Daddy Dom and proud that pain is rarely part of any session. I need to get to know a submissive before I can adequately guide her. This is real life, with real emotions and real needs.
BDSM and me
The lifestyle isn't all whips and chains, but they're damned important for the right girl and for the right reasons. Role play can liberate your inner-most dreams, touching the girl inside. The most important weapon in My arsenal is My imagination. Even though I enjoy some online play, there is nothing quite like having a girl open in front of Me. To be able to reach out, touch her and let her take Me in to her. I live for that glazed look on her face as she floats away to her place, by My hand. Then to bring her back safely to Me. This is no game to Me. I relish the huge responsibility to guide a willing girl.
Safe, Sane and Consensual only. All limits respected.
What's new
Open to online instruction as it could be a good way to get to know each other. It's a start any way.
Update date
Tuesday, February 23, 2021
Member since
Wednesday, December 25, 2019
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