Greetings, thank you for checking out my profile.
About me: I am a driven professional white male in my forties. I run a successful company, and keep pretty busy with work. I am naturally dominant, some would say a “soft dom” as I don't feel the need to throw my weight around if not needed. I am used to always being the one in charge, and that works for me, lol. I am not afraid to discipline when necessary, but prefer that it is done more for fun rather than for constant attitude adjustment. I am caring and supportive. I can be totally hard and aggressive if needed in any situation, but that is not how I prefer to be and I only let that part out if needed.
I get along with all types of people except for those that are constantly bitchy and petty. I like good conversation and like having deep connections with those in my life.
I can provide a safe space to explore and to live life to the fullest. I do pretty well financially, so you would not have to work other than doing what I need done around the house and whatnot. I am fine if you have a career, or need to work for socialization. I am also fine if you are in/or want to go to school. I would not want your career or schooling to interfere too much with our relationship as I would want to spend a lot of fun and enjoyable time together.
I expect full integrity from those I let in my life and it goes both ways. I like to leave everything better than when I found it, and this also applies to people! I am not looking to make someone miserable or to demean them into feeling worthless to gain their submission. I don't give my dominance, care and support out shallowly, so I must feel you are worthy of my time if I am to let you into my life.
About you: I am able to get along with a lot of different people, from intelligent to not so much, from introverted to outgoing, from bubbly to melancholy. I would prefer someone who is looking for a D/S dynamic along with DD/LG. I do like feminine energy, so it would be good if you are in touch with that in yourself.
I would like if you are comfortable both in being able to hold yourself presentably if/when needed in social situations yet also be able to dress down.
You should have a true deep seated need to have a strong dominant presence in your life, and to only feel complete when you have that. Whether you are somewhat independent or need to be totally dependent emotionally on someone is okay with me.
In the vanilla world, I have a persona to uphold so I need someone that is in shape and at least reasonably attractive as it affects my professional and social standing.
If you don't eat a healthy natural diet, then we would have to work together on that, as I do not like having crappy adulterated food in my house. It is really not that hard to eat healthy these days.
As far as the D/S dynamic goes, you just need to know in your heart that you are submissive and we will go from there and explore what that means between the two of us. The dynamic has plays out differently with each person, so we will just have to explore that together.
Generally, I am looking for someone to be happy with, have fun with, travel with, and feel fulfilled by. I work hard enough for two people, so we won't need to add the additional stress of worrying about the basics in life.
Please feel free to message me, yet please know I am don't do casual or online only.
Xo, and stay safe!
IRL only! Just to be clear I am looking for someone who can relocate to me and live domestically together. I, of course, can pay for you to get to where I am. I am also not afraid to spend money traveling to you to see if we are a good fit.
I think I had Covid back in February before there was testing as I was on a plane surrounded by Europeans and then went on to have mild symptoms. So I am not worried about being exposed, but I do practice safe social distancing when out!