RedKat​{Not Now }

United States
Relationship status
About me
Lean towards bratty side with a Lolita mix, as well.  Hardheaded, pleaser....

420 Friendly 

Sensual domination preferred...


Widow after 30 years with the same man, vanilla relationship.   
I overthink too much, I question things and believe nothing until it’s proven to me.
Major trust issues have clouded my vision and thoughts lately.  The walls are now back almost where they were but hopefully, one day I will get to where I want to be.

 You will be my priority and I need to be yours, also...
BDSM and me
I am trying to explore  my limits and enjoying every damn minute of it... I know what I want and what I don’t want!
*Aftercare: Is very important to me, so if you don’t know what it is then either learn or pass me up.
*No games, ex:  ghosting:  if it’s not working or we both aren’t clicking together then please be adult enough to speak up instead of hiding like a little scared bitch
*No degradation:  no random cussing me out because you want to throw your balls around.  Certain scenarios justify some dirty talk 
*No racists:  I don’t have time for ignorance 
*No tRumpsters: no explanation needed, just listen to the idiot 
*Have some brain cells:  I enjoy conversing with a person that can put sentences together
To be discussed
What's new
No bullshit, please...I just don’t have time for it...

Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.  (Albert Eisenstein)

I am looking for a kind, considerate, understanding, humorous, protective, MONOGAMOUS, Dom.   I am a ONE submissive ONLY......if I am the one for you then I have to be your only one.  No bullshit excuses about why you have to take care of or supposedly nurture others...

Reading and educating myself so I can be the best version of me.
Update date
Monday, February 8, 2021
Member since
Monday, January 13, 2020
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