JustAKitty

switch female

In a polyamorous relationship

I'm just me. I'm 45, BBW. I have just started a journey to reclaim myself. It's been a long road to where I am now, and it will be an even longer road back to where I want and need to be. I am complicated. No, trust me. My life is complicated. I am bisexual, I think. Or maybe I'm asexual. I don't really know anymore, that's part of this journey. I am educated and work in the education field, so I am a broke bitch. ~grin~ I am contemplating grad school at this point. This is important because I am impossible while I am studying. I love cats and if I was ever going to get into pet play I would ba a lap kitty...or a hungry snow leopard.

I'm also snarky.

My Owner likes me this way. Yes, I said Owner. I am here looking for friendship, possibly a girl to play with, maybe not.

I might or might not be a switch. I can put pretty stripes on my Owner (He's a switch so it's all good!) but I don't know if I could someone else.

I am a lifelong learner, submissive, switch, Sci-Fi geek, Dr Who, Star Wars, Star Trek and Horror fan. I am opinionated, argumentative and respect science above all else.

I also hate Trump. If you want to pick a fight about that you will find yourself blocked without even a comment. Just don't go there.

This is evolving, and will change.

Feb 12, 2020

First and foremost, I HAVE AN OWNER! I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DOMINANT! I'm just checking out this site. There has been an influx of creepers and predators in the kink online forums, and that bothers me. I think it's the price we pay for being more mainstream. Movies like 50 Shades of Barf have made us a household name. That's fantastic for the people who want to understand what BDSM is and are looking for something more than a one night stand. Not so good for the creepers predators who think these sites are an easy way to get laid.

I am a firm believer in using the internet to meet people and to vet them. I am also a firm believer in the local community. In my experience, if you aren't willing to meet me at a munch then you are probably hiding something. I realize public play isn't for everyone, but it is a big part of my life. I don't have to play in a dungeon to be happy, but I need to feel like I am a part of the community. If you have a problem with this, then I am not the person for you.

SIngletails, canes, SadiSticks and all things stingy are my friends. Wooden toys belong in the burn pile and will be torched at the earliest opportunity.

DD/lg and all the gross biological stuff.

Ok, so here is the deal on the DD/lg. It's a great kink for a lot of people, but not for me. I don't mind being around littles, but I am not one. I listed this for the simple fact that in the past I have received an overwhelming number of "What you really need is a Daddy..." type messages that won't take no for an answer.

No watersports, no scat, no blood. I have done cuttings in the past and might again in the future for the right reason. I promise, you don't have the right reason in an email. No needles unless you want to get stabbed with it an non-con kinda way.

Feb 13, 2020

Jan 29, 2020