I have always been a submissive but haven’t had a willing partner for many years. I am recently single after a long marriage. There is no bad blood between us we just grew apart. He was vanilla so I was as well. Now I am ready to be who I have always been but didn’t have an outlet for. I would consider myself a novice and also a fast learner. I am frustratingly sarcastic at times and can be a tad strong willed. I’m also fiercely loyal, kind, loving and can follow directions to the letter. I am currently a full-time student for forensic psychology. I put school off for many years and finally went back a couple years ago. I’m looking for a Daddy/Dom/Sir that I can trust, will respect hard limits, and that I will know I am safe with. Submission is a choice not a forced behavior. Mutual respect is important, it is difficult to submit to someone you don't respect or who doesn’t respect the fact that submission is something freely given not owed to them. I would crave his attention in that he would care about what I think, feel, want as much as I would attend to his demands, guidance and needs. I need to be called out on my bullshit, soft limits pushed for my improvement, and a protector over a harsh punisher.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
98% Submissive
97% Brat
91% Non-monogamist
87% Masochist
71% Experimentalist
66% Degradee
51% Primal (Prey)
50% Slave
38% Voyeur
30% Vanilla
18% Pet
17% Exhibitionist
7% Switch
0% Ageplayer
0% Boy/Girl
No homophobia, racist, ‘maga’ bullshit. urine, scat, permanent marks/scaring, underage, animals, nothing illegal.