I don't believe in Dominating by being distant, I believe that D/s is an exercise in intimacy and connection, first and foremost, always. I seek to be a loving partner, a dedicated mentor, a warm companion, a tireless advocate, a fierce supporter and a devoted dominant to the ones I cherish.
I do best in a mentorship role, because helping someone become their best encourages me to grow as well, and the dynamic of us both strengthening each other and helping each other be the best we can be is the most important dynamic that we will cultivate. You will be held accountable for the choices you make in life, I will push you to accomplish your goals, come in with a firm hand when you don't and praise you to high-heavens when you do, while being an encouraging presence that whole time. I'm all about helping you create changes in your mindset so it becomes more positive, and making changes in how you approach your day so it all becomes a little more tranquil. I want to make it so you find empowerment and peace. Every step I take as your Dominant, even when my decisions have to be harsh or severe, will be about building you up, making you a more confident, fulfilled and joyful person.
You'll find me warm, gentle and interested in you and who you are. I'll take delight in forming a friendship. That friendship will be the foundation of everything we build together, and the purpose of whatever we build will always be to enrichen and deepen the friendship that we have founded.