dom male

Wyoming, United States
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31[M4F] Billing, Montana - M4F Therapeutic spanking/cuddling
I'm an experienced disciplinarian seeking to provide you with a safe, positive space to receive the spanking you desire and the deep attentive listening and care that you need. You can expect to be marked from the top of your bottom to the bottom of your thighs, with ample attention given to your sit spots so you feel my work for weeks when you sit down. You can expect a long, stern lecture after time in the corner beforehand. You can expect to receive compassion, kindness and warmth even when I am my most severe with you. You can expect ample, attentive aftercare, whether that's being held for a long time - letting you cry into my chest, marathoning something lighthearted while we cuddle - just let me know what you need. You can expect to have a safe word and to trust that it will be respected and adhered to without a single question if you call it. You can expect for me to be truly passionate about giving you a positive experience.
About me
I'm a media professional. A Mystery Scence Theater 3000 enthusiast. A breakfast lover (technically, an egg slut). A Horror connoisseur. An impulsive writer. And a Hemingway apologist. I'm also shamelessly into Gordon Ramsey. Personality wise, I'm cynical on the outside, but a soft romantic on the inside. I adore intellectualism, but respect individuality more, and I have very little patience for things that don't contain either. I like anti-jokes more than I like regular jokes. I cherish alternative viewpoints, but I am of strong opinions, and my goal in life is to speak my mind with ever-increasing clarity, grace, and wit. I am intensely passionate about those I care about, and empathetically understanding of everyone. I am a man who only wishes for a few close friends, and a thousand acquaintances. I am eagerly and openly myself at all times. I yearn to climb mountains.
BDSM and me

I don't believe in Dominating by being distant, I believe that D/s is an exercise in intimacy and connection, first and foremost, always. I seek to be a loving partner, a dedicated mentor, a warm companion, a tireless advocate, a fierce supporter and a devoted dominant to the ones I cherish.

 I do best in a mentorship role, because helping someone become their best encourages me to grow as well, and the dynamic of us both strengthening each other and helping each other be the best we can be is the most important dynamic that we will cultivate. You will be held accountable for the choices you make in life, I will push you to accomplish your goals, come in with a firm hand when you don't and praise you to high-heavens when you do, while being an encouraging presence that whole time. I'm all about helping you create changes in your mindset so it becomes more positive, and making changes in how you approach your day so it all becomes a little more tranquil. I want to make it so you find empowerment and peace. Every step I take as your Dominant, even when my decisions have to be harsh or severe, will be about building you up, making you a more confident, fulfilled and joyful person.

 You'll find me warm, gentle and interested in you and who you are. I'll take delight in forming a friendship. That friendship will be the foundation of everything we build together, and the purpose of whatever we build will always be to enrichen and deepen the friendship that we have founded.

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Update date
Oct 3, 2023
Member since
Feb 10, 2020
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