Butterflycm
sub female

Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Age
34
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
I am Butterfly, a 30 year old female.

I am married to a wonderful and kinky man however we are in an in an open/poly marriage as we do not fit together in a kink dynamic currently.

Personality wise, I am sweet and cute and like to have fun. I am not a very serious person. I like to giggle and talk and love making new friends. I have a bit (or a lot) of brat in me. I like to push buttons and call people silly names. I also love finding loop holes. At the end of the day, I am obedient and always do what I am supposed to.

Looks wise, I am a BBW. Because of this, I am very self conscious at times, however I am on a journey to love myself and my husband has been monumental in that journey. I need somebody who can adore me for the person I am, in the body that I have and who can see past my weight and see my inner beauty.
BDSM and me
I am a little, brat and a switch.

I currently own two subs, but am looking to focus on exploring my submissive side. I want to be pushed and would love to find somebody who I can build trust with so that I can start to push and explore some of my soft limits.

I love sex toys!!! I own over 120 different toys ranging from nipple clamps, e-stim, impact play and of course lots of plugs and vibes. We recently got a fucking machine and violet wand as well. I love to give advice and reviews on toys as well.

My likes are pretty extensive, I love toys, anal play, impact play, sensory play, orgasm control (NO LONG TERM DENIAL), teasing/edging, and playing with ice. I love to try and experience new things. There are very few things that are put into my limits without trying it at least once.

Speaking of my limits, the biggest one for me is name calling. I came from an abusive background and I do not tolerate being called things such as “slut”, “bitch” or anything similar. Any negative terms are not for me, and I will not call others those words either. I have a few others that we can discuss as well if you choose to respond to my ad.
Limits
Soft Limits: Extreme pain, photos, gags, caging/confinement, forced wetting, clit torture, denial, breathplay, hidden public , needles.

Hard Limits: Public, name calling, not wearing a bra, wooden spoons, videos/cam, kneeling, corner time, impact play as punishment, ass to mouth, scat/pee, knife, fire, bodily fluids, face slapping, head shaving, roleplay, blackmail, choking/gagging, gaping/fisting, food insertions, collars, ice in my ass, vaginal sex.
Update date
Feb 12, 2020
Member since
Feb 12, 2020
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