I'm an outwardly masculine, mature gentleman. After a lifetime of being the "alpha" male in the bedroom I have developed a desire to be sexually subservient. I truly enjoy pleasing my partner and hearing them climax. I love using my tongue and being ordered to please. I've also had Limited anal play being on the receiving end with a finger or two and crave to surrender to being pegged. I've had other passing thoughts of forced bisexual and forced femminization but those might need to be worked up to.
I'm relatively new to bdsm but I'm very enthusiastic to learn but I'm not looking for a complete lifestyle change, I'm looking for discreet interactions when time permits.
I'm not into pain very much, I definitely will not do poop, pee, blood, animals or permanent marks. Open to almost anything else.