Widower DOM and now ready to find that special sub for ltr. My interest are wide and my trust is hard to get.
Been in BDSM before, then vanilla and back. I am a private person who in such a relationship start with 3 simple rules 100% honesty, 100% communication, 100% respect.
none of these: Scat, children, bestiality or HF couples. no public sex either (unless in a room full of naked woman :-P)
Absolutely nothing sexual with another man or another man present (long story, part of why I left bdsm for a while)
Maybe more down the road!