redxxi
dom male

Houston, Texas, United States
Age
31
Relationship status
Single
About me
I'm a 28-year-old Asian male looking to spoil the fuck out of the right person.

My non-negotiables are that my partner is a Christian who takes their faith seriously (& preferably one who is committed to waiting until after marriage to have sex) and appreciates power exchange (preferably of the 24/7 variant).

I have a preference for those who are thin & fit and in the 20-28 age range. For cultural reasons, I also prefer someone who's ethnically Asian, though I'm willing to explore flexibility here.

For those who find it important: I've been making 6-figures for the past 6+ years (& looking to break into 7+ in the coming years), am working towards a 6-pack, and while not 6-feet tall, I'm not too far off. In general, I value doing something meaningful with my life as more important than money, but I recognize that it does eliminate a lot of money problems. My life vision comes from seeing the life of Jesus in verses like Mt 20:28 ("the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve") and I want someone by my side serving and supporting me so I can stay focused & energized in that mission (ie: I'd love to have a wife that'd rather be supporting me by my side than working in the corporate world.)

I don't care how much you make or what you do, as long as you're intelligent & are inclined towards submission & supportiveness. Massive bonus points if you're naturally goofy, weird, and/or sarcastic (I try not to take life too seriously).

I'm a believer of the "Your needs first, then my needs, then my wants, then your wants" philosophy (though I'll try reasonably hard to meet your desires).

I'm fine with starting off online but am ultimately looking for something that results in marriage.
BDSM and me
Lots of vanilla dating has taught me that I don't think I can have a relationship with someone without explicit power exchange (both sexually & non-sexually). While I don't haven't been in an explicit D/s relationship before, in the back of my mind, I've always operated this way mentally.  You and I might be a good match if you share a lot of overlap with my "About me", want to be a sub/slave in the hands of a thoughtful dominant, appreciate giving & receiving praise & service, and love sex.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
90% Master/Mistress
88% Voyeur
82% Degrader
78% Rigger
76% Experimentalist
63% Brat tamer
62% Primal (Hunter)
59% Vanilla
50% Owner
42% Exhibitionist
34% Sadist
11% Daddy/Mommy
6% Masochist
5% Non-monogamist
0% Switch
0% Submissive
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Pet
0% Brat
0% Ageplayer
Update date
Mar 21, 2021
Member since
Mar 4, 2020
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