In a polyamorous relationship
I enjoy showing my dominance in many different ways. Though in order to do so one must know their sub inside and out. I question anyone being able to be a proper Dom otherwise.
I learn about the likes and dislikes and anything else I can learn and piece together that along with their behavioral patterns which I use to make my decisions about them. Be it where we will eat, what we will do, and more. I like to order for us as it keeps me on my toes. Having to study daily how a person is and if their whims have changed that day. Though isn't that what love truly is. To put the effort into knowing what will make them happy.
I am poly and as such won't be everyone's cup of tea. I believe in polyfidelis where we are loyal to each other and form a close knit bond. I am poly due to my split mind and needing to be a Daddy to a little yet also needing to be a Master. Due to the dichotomy of it I can't find my balance with just one partner. I understand that is not what everyone else may think but this is my life and my happiness. I will keep searching until I can find the pieces that fit my life and can give me the balance my mind needs from the childhood trauma.
I have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years.