I just recently quit my career as an engineer and am now looking to pursue careers that allow me to be my true authentic self more often. Generally speaking I'm getting into more "sexy" professions. I am a switch, so don't get thrown off by this, but I'm working towards being a pro dominatrix as well as being a sex and intimacy coach.
I would love the ability to be able to explore both sides of me. The submissive side that wants to lose control and the dominant side which needs A LOT of practice. So whether you want to be my Daddy or Master, or if you want to be my pet to practice by dom skills on, please inquire. I would appreciate learning more about myself in both roles, but in no way do I need to be with one person that switches. (If you're a switch male this could be a great arrangement)
I am non-monogamous. So if you are looking for exclusivity you will not find it here. I have Doms I'm already with who I care about and will not be ending those relationships.
Outside of this kinky bubble, I'm a very outgoing, open minded and confident individual. I am also very loving. Whether I am being a dom or sub, i genuinely end up caring about the people I am with and want nothing but the best for them and for them to be completely comfortable with me.
I'm fairly new to BDSM, with only about 6months experience as of Oct 2019.
On my submissive side I have experience with the following: choking, slapping, spanking, scratching, biting, hair pulling, bondage, sensory deprivation play, face fucking, MFM threesome, wax play, electro play (neon wand), vampire gloves, breath play, DP (with toys), anal and probably some more I'm blanking on. Just ask!
On my Dom side I have little experience but this is what I've done so far: suffocation (ass or tits), light choking/breath play, hair pulling, scratching, biting, some verbal playful dominance, edging, tying down to a bed, blindfolding.
I also took a class in CBT and sensation play. So I learned some skills that I haven't had the opportunity to practice in my personal life yet. Those things include: cock tying, playing with clothes pins, wax play, nipple torture, ball torture, ball stretching.
I do still have a lot to work on regarding what is mentioned above and really just want more experience. There are also things I haven't tried yet and would love to be taught about.
**ALSO I've been trying to find someone to mentor me in domination. And to be clear I mean free of charge, and non-sexual for our own benefit kind of mentor, if you're interested let me know.**
Hard limits: Scat, age play, race play, shaming of body or intelligence, animals, children, vomit
Soft limits: water sports, knives, medical play
I'm more into in person domination and submission. I want to practice my skills face to face and physically.
I can be open to something remote, but it needs to be something worth it.