XiaoTian
sub female

New York, New York, United States
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
Young professional who loves to cook, read, and spend time outdoors. Not Chinese or Asian, I just happen to speak Mandarin. Love learning languages, new things.
BDSM and me
I’m hoping to learn more from folks in the community about my interests and limits. I really appreciate those who are sharing their journeys and knowledge here. I have been exploring with my husband.

I enjoy some bondage, spanking, and choking from vanilla relationships, but have not been with someone I trusted enough to explore this further. I am fascinated by kinbaku and rigging. It’s absolutely beautiful. I believe in keeping an open mind so that I can learn more, and discern my own kinks. I am interest in learning more about wax play.
Limits
Hard Limits:
Blood/knife/gun play
Degradation
Being slapped/hit in the face
Injury
Potty play
Certain positions

Soft Limits:
Money.

While not necessarily a limit, professionally it’s is very important that my face is not in video/nude photos. This would only occur with someone who had my complete trust after an extended period of time.
What's new
Learning more about myself and the community.

Happily married and exploring with my partner.
Update date
Oct 9, 2022
Member since
Mar 24, 2020
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