xlilbratbaex

sub female

28

Single

I'm an Afro-Latina, 5'8, full figured young woman who loves being a little sassy. Outside of kink I’m a neuroscience student, nerd (I have a newfound love for D&D), hiker, coastal explorer, gamer when time allows, and practically a part time comedian. Overall, I thoroughly enjoy depth, growth, and doing things with intention.
I can be very linear, so I tend to enjoy people who bring a different perspective and make me think differently. I’m playful and silly once I’m comfortable, observant, and I also have strong standards. Respect, emotional intelligence, kindness, and authenticity matter a lot to me.
I’ve been through enough to know what matters now, so I don’t really entertain nonsense. I appreciate people who are genuine, self-aware, and know how to communicate.

I’ve been interested in BDSM for years, but I’m still seeking a respectful dynamic that I know is possible. I was initially interested in the rough physical dynamic I had with my first partner, but I've softened up since then, so I'm not sure if I'd still enjoy it. I guess we'll have to see. I value trust, chemistry, communication, and the mental side of power exchange far more than the sexual side. I'm also very focused on self improvement, so that is something I require.

I want to be the best version of myself and honor someone who invests their time and energy in helping me along my journey. I guess there's a kind of loyalty I'm searching to give. I appreciate intelligent, open-minded people with humor, patience, empathy, manners, and emotional intelligence.

I'd say I'm a pretty playful, curious submissive with a nurturing side. Definitely a brat when I'm comfortable. I enjoy playful resistance, teasing, and dynamics with someone confident enough to handle it. I’m also interested in exploring my switch side in the right context.

My turn-ons and interests include praise, teasing, brat/brat tamer dynamics, service dynamics, rituals and check-ins, psychological dominance/submission, power exchange, guided submission, light protocol, verbal direction, humiliation (giving rather than receiving), mentorship dynamics, control through anticipation, tasking, flirtation and tension-building, and financial dynamics as an area of curiosity.

I’m looking for friendship first with the potential to build into an ongoing dynamic or mentorship. Online connection is ideal for now, but I'm open to in-person if the stars align.

Hard limits include humiliation toward me, physical punishment, emotional cruelty, bodily fluids, age play or anything child-inspired, non-consensual behavior, racism/sexism/slurs, ignoring safewords, coercion/manipulation, and public exposure without consent. (Safeword: osteoporosis)

Soft limits include explicit photo/video exchange, in-person play before trust is built, heavy protocol dynamics, rope/bondage depending on partner skill, pet names early on, 24/7 dynamics, pain-focused scenes, and certain forms of humiliation when switching.

Respectful communication only. Don’t ask me to be your sub before knowing me as a person.

Mar 26, 2020