kodidiesel

dom male

The photos in my profile are internet grabs. The pictures of mine which depict women bound, experiencing peadicament bondage, and extreme bondage can not be shared because of agreements with subjects to not have them shared, but I still wantes to depict things I will do to my eventual property.

To begin with, I am a straight male, 48, looking for a female or a female male couple in which the male would not be directly used by me, for some reason this confuses me subs.

My dominance is about control, pure and simple. I know what I want, more directly I know what I need.  I don't mind a strong, confident slave, as long as she realizes it is my world and she is being allowed to live in it. My rules, my decisions, my way. There is no compromise, there is no discussion to be had. If this is beyond your ability to accept, then move along.

For me submission will be absolute, It will never be about you, about what you want, need, or desire. That is not to say that these things will not be addressed, but it is for me to parcel out as I see fit, not for you to demand.

My needs seem to confuse many because they try to apply traditional relationship dynamics to a situation that is not traditional. Put simply, I need a girl to enslave. Not the cheeky roleplay that I see on sights like this where the slave seems to be the dominant of the dynamic with checklists, demands, and only seems to submit when she finds it appropriate. Power exchange in Master/slave dynamics are not fluid or reversible. I take your power, your rights, I become the gatekeeper to everything for you. Every decision, every action, every thought. This type of power exchange also means that I as the Master become responsible for every single freedom and decision that is stripped away. Ideally a slave has one purpose, to do as she is directed.

There is much more involved in this dynamic for me that I will not go in depth with here, it is also not for everyone, but it is for me.  Questions are welcome, criticism is not, I have not formed my thoughts about things overnight, every facet of this dynamic for me have been formed by experience, input from others, as well as an understanding that to balance this dynamic nothing is stripped away without it becoming my responsibility.

My first love,  Yvonne  Craig was my bound dark delight as was Linda Carter. It for me is the systematic stripping of a woman's power until she is immobile,  mute,  and incapable of stopping me from doing as I please.

The inability of anyone to be honest and worthy of my time,  that limits me.

I have been looking for this type of girl for years. It is an absolute surrender of self, no outside contact, no outside social life, no outside anything. She will be kept restrained in some way 24/7, even if it is just a locked collar and a chain to the wall. I have a sadistic streak so abuse and torture would be normal, though I have no care for blood or permanent damage, it just does not serve my purpose. I only have 3 criteria for accepting such a girl.

That I have an attraction, age, shape, race, etc have no real weight on what I find attractive, just let me see and I will let you know

That the girl fully understands what she is getting herself into. I don't do anything less than lifetime enslavment, no trials, no tapping out, no leaving. This is actual enslavment, not role play. Ask whatever questions you need to so that you feel fully informed in your decision because it will be the last one you make if you enter my world.
For you to put yourself at my feet. You need to make this decision, while it is a delicious thought to force a girl, coerce a girl, or gaslight a girl into this and feast on the terror they fill with after the collar locks and reality settles in. The reality is that while oh so exciting to think about, the real world has consequences for actions and I would just rather not have any potential drama related to anything but a CNC beginning.

This also means any relocation will not be financed by myself so that money also could not be seen as a motivator, and it keeps the scammers away. I will give you nothing but conversation until I posess you.
Please do not ask what a typical day is. I am neurodivergent and typical for me is not being typical. I may want something on monday, and something else on Tuesday, or Monday evening, or Monday afternoon, or while I am in the middle of the first things, I hope you understand my point.

While I can admit that people who have transitioned into womanhood are in fact women at any stage of their journey, and some are absolutely beautiful, it still gives me the uncanny valley syndrome, something I have worked on, I've come a long way, but I am not to the point of being in a sexual dynamic with someone who has transitioned, I would hope that you can respect me on my journey as well. I leave this because I want no drama as I have had in past, I have no desire for drama.


A theory I have come to believe.....

It is my belief that we are all born with a nature, who we are supposed to be in this world. Family, society, and life puts expectations onto us dictating who we do become. For many people this nature comes into conflict with expectation and leads to confusion, doubt, and sometimes self loathing. Sometimes we are afraid to embrace our nature out of fear of disappointing expectation, those of us though who explore our nature and embrace it are free on a level we could never have dreamed of, even if it is free to be enslaved. I know my nature and have embraced it, and I am constantly looking for my opposite.

I am mystified that a simple concept like dominance and submission is completely misunderstood. If I am a Dom looking for a sub or a slave, I am not looking for someone to take care of, not someone to pamper, indulge, cater to, or even give in to what you need. That is a modern vanilla relationship with kinky tendencies. To say you are a sub or a slave followed by a laundry list of what you want, need or deserve is utter bullshit. You need to take that to Plenty of Fish, eHarmony, or OkCupid because you are doing it wrong.

Apr 2, 2024

Aug 3, 2017