MatureDom

Male

In a polyamorous relationship

I am starting my second chapter on life. For many years, i lived a vanilla lifestyle, yet I always had this desire to be what my life at the time would not allow. Act two, I met someone who became my best friend, her life mirrored mine. Through that friendship she became my submissive, my wife, my partner and was amazing until i learned that she was a pathological liar, for over two years, it became one lie after another and all trust was lost. I made the hardest decision and that was to release her as my submissive and focus on how we could build our life together as husband and wife, while we both learn how to be a true D/s couple. Being a Dom is not always sexual, for me it is the mental high I get from an intelligent conversation, to the safe control I have over someone. I seek like minded people, in that regard who understand that this truly is a lifestyle and not just sex.

So, that brings me to this site. I am someone who believes in education, and learning. I believe no matter what your age is there is always someone who knows more. I am here to learn, from others by doing. I want learn more about the mind of a submissive, and I want to learn more about the mind of a Dominant. I seek to explore through online relationship. I have read many blogs, articles and my current relationship i do understand that no matter how much we love each other, we may never be able to have a D/s relationship together and end up with a life that is very fulfilling on all levels because we both took the time to learn and to understand our roles.

I do not enjoy inflicting pain, but i do enjoy light bondage, and flogging

I have always kept an open mind. if it's not legal, do not ask.

I want to learn to be a better Dom, I want to grow and learn where my place might be. I want others to reach out to me to help me learn, but I also want to be able to help and guide others

Apr 30, 2020

Apr 28, 2020