Captain

dom female

37

Single

I am a lesbian Dom and am interested in learning more and new information about the D/s lifestyle. I am not in this for sexual pleasure (though it is a wonderful plus)  the structure, control, respect and connection it brings to a relationship is what interested me long ago. I have been a submissive to an experienced Domme i fully trusted and found that that is not something I enjoy, to put it simply, I dont like giving up control. I have been out of the lifestyle for a few years now and I am looking for a dom or domme mentor that can answer and give advice. I like to take control and do things properly, so I am not afraid to seek advice from someone more experienced than I. I am always seeking new friends in the community so please, don't be shy. I don't enjoy being called Ma'am or Mistress, I have a problem with being called a name someone else has. I take the lifestyle seriously and am always looking for ways to better myself...so that I can better guide us through this journey.

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I've always known I was a control freak from a young age. When I was about 15 years old I came across "Secretary" and it changed how I looked at relationships forever. I identified with Mr.Gray and started to research everything I could about BDSM and D/s lifestyles. I thought I should try being a sub at 18 years old, I wanted to broaden my mind and open up my body; I thought maybe I was a switch. I am not. But it was the best learning experience and since then I have been learning and growing as a Dom and I love everything about being one.

Scat, urine, orgies, and anything including animals.

Dec 7, 2017

Aug 15, 2017