I am a trans-man who's been on testosterone for about a year now. I plan on having top surgery but not bottom surgery. I am currently in college for my associates, im working full time, and I'm very excited for what BDSM has to offer.
I've been into BDSM for years but I've only recently started to actively participate in the lifestyle. Since I am so new there's a lot I don't know about my own limits. In my heart I'm a quiet submissive, in practice however, I find myself being a bit bratty. I have recently been exploring my more dominant side and am quite enjoying that roll as well. Currently my favorite things to do are: bondage, fire play, violet wand, impact play, and quills (idk why but quills don't bother me even though needles do)
My limits depend on the level of trust. As with all things trust is not freely given but earned. Mutual respect even in a power dynamic. That being said, I am open to trying almost everything at least once.