I am 41 and just got out of a long term relationship. I want to explore the submissive side of me. I don’t want a full on relationship just somebody I can trust. I am educated and need anybody I meet to be very discreet. I am not into the whole being made to sleep on the floor and humiliation in that way but I am open to exploring what I would be willing to do.
However, although I am new to exploring this side of me, don’t message me expecting me to fall at your feet over the internet or on the phone! I am not exploring this side of me lightly and have researched what I should be looking for in a Dom and what I should not !! In my own life I have a very responsible and challenging job and will not tolerate men who think they can be aggressive or pushy with me! The reading about this has taught me that the number one thing between the D/s relationship is trust and MUTUAL respect so if you want me to start video chatting, sending photos and calling you immediately just jog on.
Like I said I am a complete novice and still figuring out all the different aspects of what I am looking for. However, one thing I know for sure is i absolutely do not like hard physical pain, being hit until I bleed or spanked until I am blue is not my thing. I am unsure about what other limits I have yet as I am still learning about all of this.
I need somebody I can have a conversation with ! I am a professional and need to be challenged. I would expect the person that is right for me is in a similar situation. I love intelligent men that turns me on more than looks! So before messaging me please ask yourself if what I am looking for is you? I don’t want to sound like a bitch but I am to old to mess about and know what I do/don’t want.
So if you are serious and meet the criteria I need and still want to message me I will look forward to it x