ShirooKuma

dom male

38

Single

Am coming to terms with my dom nature after fighting it for many years to adhere to societal norms of proper male protocol. Am looking to explore and control my desire to dominate and direct people to be better versions of themselves. I take great satisfaction in molding people and helping them come to terms with their desires by creating and maintaining structure to accomplish those goals. I have only recently begun to think that this is what has been missing from my own personal life in finding and satisfying a partner. I have been too passive before, which has caused strains on my relationships and I am only now beginning to realize that I have not let my dominant desires be expressed. Am currently looking for someone to help me develop and satisfy my needs to control. Looking for a sub to help me learn how to be a better guide and an effective dom within a more intimate setting. As I learn more about this culture and it's intricacies, I will update this information accordingly.

I don't know enough about the BDSM semantics or vocabulary to quickly address this. I am not into the Masochist or Sadist part of domination, but the satisfaction of bringing a shared goal into fruition and creating a place of order, structure, and pleasure

Update ~
Dominant Primal: Although the ideas of ropes and chains have peaked my interests in days past, I believe that the power and strength of ones own body being dominant over another consenting individual is far more invigorating. In truth, I would much rather assert that dominance through the mind, to have the prey fully submit before the need to display such physical dexterity.

Bodily fluids of a violent nature or maiming of a person are definitely out I don't feel tolerant towards repeated deliberate failures to learn or adapt Things of an overtly unclean intent, prefer things being clean

Updated in future

05/29 ~ It would seem that I am a primal dom. I guess that would have been obvious to those who know this community and lifestyle just by looking at my profile picture, but I was unaware that such a thing even existed. Fascinating community this is.

Jun 1, 2020

May 25, 2020