IBreedBagels

dom male

36

Single

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I'm currently in the process of cutting everything out of my life that's not important. If I lose contact with anybody you can still reach me here for the time being. Life is too short for anything that doesn't add to it. 

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Hi! My name is Ronnie.

These things always feel like writing a resume to me, and if there's TOO much detail in these things it removes the fun of learning somebody. I'm mostly here looking to make real friends, and hopefully something more. My experiences here haven't been that great, but nobody knows where their person is, there's always at least a little hope lol. 

I'm open to talking to anybody and everybody, but here's a few basics: 

- I won't play with you, I'm not interested until you catch my attention in some other way. I'm open to having THAT kind of friend but not if there's no attraction anywhere else. I'm ALL for benefits, but I don't go there with just anybody.

- I care a lot, about friends and anything I consider close to me so if you don't like talking much or are a once a day message kind of person we probably won't be friends long. I keep my life pretty simple, I keep nothing that doesn't add to it. I like checking on people, making sure they're ok and I care about the RELATIONSHIP that people build with each other. That part is lost on a lot of people these days. 

- I'm a very straight person, I only state this because of the amount of messages I get asking about the other haha.. I don't judge, but I don't swing that way, I like women, so for anybody else asking about THAT, I hope you find what you're looking for(: 

- I'm very reclusive, an introvert in every sense of the word. I do most things alone, and spend a lot of time alone in my own cave. I prefer peace over chaos, I don't like bars or parties. My perfect day would be a night in, with just a really close friend or two with drinks and home made food and games or movies. 

- Here's the test thing most people use: 

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==

100% Brat tamer
100% Dominant
100% Rigger
100% Master/Mistress
97% Owner
90% Primal (Hunter)
73% Sadist
52% Degrader
51% Experimentalist
43% Voyeur
43% Daddy/Mommy
27% Exhibitionist
1% Age player
1% Vanilla
0% Non-monogamist
0% Switch

I'm usually hanging out somewhere in the chat just lurking, I spend a lot of time alone and its nice to see other people interacting sometimes so if you see me in there feel free to send me a PM! ... I don't keep a very close eye on the public chat, so if you say something in there I might not see it.

I suppose if you've read THIS far I owe you at least a few things... Like I said above, when it comes to BDSM play is just a perk. I'm mostly drawn to this life because of the connection with my partner, the trust and understanding that needs to be established is something that can't really be found anywhere else. 

I know that's a little vague but you're more than welcome to ask about more if we talk(: 

NOPE, NEVER - If your body considers it garbage and expells it, then so do I I think this one is pretty self explanatory. Although one time I experimented with a person who was pretty into degradation and basically begged for a golden shower... It was not for me, speaking from experience.

- Permanent marks - (play marks anyway) I do like seeing ownership marks or items. I do like knife play very rarely, requires a very particular mood. But I can't draw blood or leave any permanent marks.

- Face slapping - I'm all for degredation, and sadistic styles of play sometimes. But at least personally, it's just a little too much for me to hit someone in the face.

- Permanent Dynamics - I do have a vanilla side, and I'm a very quiet and passive person and can't keep up the "dynamic" side of a relationship 24/7.. For me, that's for outings and time spent at the house and or in the bedroom. I respect those who want that 24/7 dynamic, but I can't personally uphold that. I need some "breathing" room sometimes (: DEPENDS, PER PERSON? MAYBE? IDK ...

- Receiving any kind of submissive actions - I don't identify as a switch and don't have any "switchy" tendencies, but there are things that I do like. I DON'T like being choked, and absolutely nothing goes near my backside unless you're ready for a fight lol. I also won't go into restraints or be tied down in any way.

- Slave / Sadism / Extreme Bondage / Electric stuffs / Hilariously large toys etc... - I'm a very open person and I love a good rough slightly sadistic "session" from time to time, but it's generally not part of who I am. I don't like treating people like animals, using them as footstools etc... I'm open but it varies per session and depends on my mood. I'm also not really into tying up someone in ways that might hurt them for long periods of time.

I've lost a lot recently and I'm not really looking for anything at all. I'm not willing to do anything more than talk with anyone, unless there's proven intent to meet.

I'm still the same ole boring me that I've been for the last 36 years. I've recently started to more seriously look into finding a partner. For long term. Life has shifted a little bit for me lately and I'm starting to feel the tug of loneliness. I'm hoping to find someone to spend my time with as I have a lot of it lately. More than just in the life. I want someone to play video games with, watch movies with and have drinks and play board / card games with. I have no need for a large group of friends. I just want one. One special friend. I, am in every sense of the word, an introvert. I don't go out on my own unless it's necessary. Just hoping to find someone to share my hobbies with and build a life with. I own my own home, just me and my dog. We'd love to bring someone into our little cave here.

Jun 5, 2020