FantasyKing

dom male

*GHOSTING IS INCREDIBLY RUDE!  DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU CAN'T HANDLE A SIMPLE MESSAGE STATING YOU'RE NO LONGER INTERESTED!  YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO BE IN THIS LS IF THIS IS HOW YOU ACT*

Looking to expand my world, meeting new people, learn as much as possible about them and bdsm.

I love to chat, get to know people from many walks of life. I’ll discuss almost any subject, whether bdsm or not. I’ve met some great people, had numerous great conversations, and made some friendships that I hope to last for many years here on The Cage. If you truly want a good conversation, message me.  

**If you don’t want contact/conversation, please say so on your profile. It is frustrating the number of profiles that request friendly conversation, state “don’t hesitate to reach out”, and then won’t give the common courtesy of a polite reply.  Why request it if you don’t fucking want it?!  If age is an issue for you, do these two simple things. One, include YOUR age and two, STATE WHAT AGE RANGE IS ACCEPTABLE TO YOU.**

Some of you have asked for me to upload a picture of myself.  I do have reasons for protecting my privacy, so I don’t see that happening.  I am willing to send you a picture privately if I feel I can trust you. 

A couple years experience, learned some, so much more to go.  The community here at The Cage has been (mostly) very welcoming and helpful.  My experience is mostly online, and has been very satisfying. Now that covid is mostly behind us, I hope to have more IRL experiences. 

For me, the experience depends greatly on the partner(s).  Of course, sexually, I have kinks I enjoy more than others. However, I’ve found regardless of kink, my satisfaction is tied to my submissives satisfaction. There’s a symbiosis of pleasure that comes from the D/s or M/s bond that rarely exists in vanilla relationships. 

Imo, aftercare is extremely important. It surprises me how few discuss aftercare at all. Treat the scars, both physical and mental. Discuss what didn’t work, what you want more.  Open and honest communication is the single most important part of any dynamic. Show appreciation for their submissiveness by pampering them a bit(or a lot if deserved). Your bond will strengthen as much through aftercare as play. 

Hard limits-Water sports, scat, age play, anything illegal(except some public sex). 

Ghosting is a major problem on this site, especially amongst those under 30.  Let me be clear-IT IS RUDE AND COMPLETELY INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOUR!!  You are valuing your time more than mine.  You are wasting my time.  You are completely unprepared for this world if you can't maintain the smallest amount of communication.  It is much better to be told to fuck off than to have someone REACH OUT TO ME TO CHAT, only to then disappear after stating they enjoyed our chats and want to talk more.  

STOP GHOSTING!!