*Hello! I’m going to step down from my membership because I moved somewhere where they block this site so I can’t access my messages etc. 90% of the time. I don’t know if this will remove my profile, but if it does, it’s been lovely to meet everyone ?
*Hello! If you've sent me a message and i haven't responded, I'm not being rude, I'm not angry, I'm not ignoring you. Fortunately for me, I'm getting so many messages that I can't keep up. I'll do my best to respond but if I don't now you know why. Thanks*
I’m a 34 year old woman who’s new to the BDSM scene. A friend of mine pointed out that I belong in this world after asking about my fantasies and I can’t believe it took me this long to realize it. I’ve taken the online BDSM test and honestly I’d prefer to be an owner and a sadist (obviously the test can’t be 100% correct, but so far so good.)
I’m starting to realize that I really would love a slave boy, but also a sub that I don’t treat like a slave. I was trying to figure out how to combine those desires, but realize now that maybe I can have them separate. A sub that would appreciate a slave boy around the house would be ideal. Unsure yet if this is just a fantasy, but it feels like something I actually want in life.
I’ve wasted a lot of time with vanilla and have finally realized that I still want a loving relationship, but with someone who gets true satisfaction out of being my gorgeous servant that I can show off. I need to know we’re both getting something out of it, and really for once tell someone exactly what I want and need with jo hesitation or overthinking. Also, it’s important that I’m with someone who wants to do everything non sexual that I want too as a way of proving that it’s not just about sex for him. I’m vegan and in relatively good shape if you like kinda thin and kinda soft. I’ve traveled the world but feel ready to live in one place for a time. Artist, musical, opinionated, and liberal. Popular with the boys when I’m in the mood to make time for them.