Hi there, nice to see you. Thank you to those who read and love my profile. Cheers!
My name is Yan, born and raised in Malaysia, but spent nearly 10 years overseas, now back in Malaysia due to the pandemic. I can read, write and speak Mandarin and English. I have a job and own a business, so I am financially independent. May be a frequent traveller in the future because of my business, let's see.
I am the type of taking things seriously and quite strong in self-discipline. I like reading?, painting?, travel?, drinks?, movies/dramas?, meditating??♀️, yoga etc. And most importantly, I love to learn and explore new things. I always stay open-minded and respectful of everything, as long as they are legit and human. I'm interested in human nature and psychology, so I will spend time on self-study whenever I'm free, would love to share thoughts with those who are interested in it too.
I realize that I am a dom and sadist(at some point) for years, proud of who I am. Never thought that BDSM was something "sick" or "unusual", for me it is just one of the lifestyles, that just as normal as people love shopping, gaming, or travelling, nothing to be ashamed of.
Some of my close friends knew about it, and we are still best friends today, lucky us! I am happy to meet new friends here. Please feel free to chat, share, or discuss your experience and story.
To me, a BDSM relationship is not as simple as playing or fulfilling each other kinky needs, but it also leads and helps each other to be a better person. I believe doms and subs are equally deserving of respect. I know some people tend to have the concept of being superior to others(in both "real life" and BDSM), but that's just not my thing. If you have this kind of alphas/betas etc mindset/value, I respect that, but I don't think we can have much to talk about.
YES
- I'm looking for LTR - boyfriend by day, pet/slave by night. Sounds sexy right??
- I'm open to meeting new friends(especially like-minded individuals) and mentors who are willing to learn from each other.
- I believe relationships are going to take time, so please don't expect any play or relationship when we barely know each other.
- I am selective about who I let close or go further, just like you do.
- I value high quality, mature intellect and thorough communication.
- I admire those who are clean, healthy, mature, intelligent, self-disciplined, stable(both personality and emotionally, or at least responsible for your emotions, because I take great care of mine too), and financially independent.
- I'd appreciate it if you are courteous, sincere, honest, and not hypocrites. I match my words with deeds, and I expect you to be the same too.
NO
- Please don't call me "Mistress", "Goddess", "Queen"... etc, as we are not in a D/S relationship yet. We are equals beforehand, your politeness and respect will be much appreciated.
- I don't take online sessions.
- Play partners are not needed at this point, please stop asking.
- I won't respond with:
a) an empty profile. Leaving it empty won't make you look mysterious, but suspicious. If you have a hard time publishing your intro, please DM me and introduce yourself, not just simply as "Hi, can I chat with you?", "Can I be your slave?", "I am available and looking for a mistress." etc.
b) genital profile photos, you may keep and lick for yourself, I'm not interested in them.
c) those who are over-desperate to find a domme to fulfil their sexual goals or desire, I'm not a sex dispenser to serve or cater to your sexual/kink needs. Being pushy won't work for me and is off-putting.
- I don't simply share my contact details unless I feel I want to(when our interests and personality match, it could also lead us to a personal meet-up).
- Everything without SSC.
- Anything illegal.
- No drugs(including edible).
- No scat.
- No permanent damage.
Sometimes I can be quite slow to respond due to work or other reasons. So, please be persistent and a bit patient with me. You can drop me a message if you don't mind, and I will get back to you when there is time. Your patience is much appreciated.