bdhotnerd
dom male

Surrey, British Columbia, Canada
Age
31
Relationship status
Single
About me
I'm a lover, not a fighter. I like music, movies, philosophy, psychology, and love to talk about most anything. Deep conversation is inevitable with me, and my topics range from dinner last night to the meaning we give to our lives. I am a homebody that loves nothing more than rest and relaxation. Good food, a good movie, and a smart, sensitive, beautiful woman next to me is my ideal evening. I am a bit shy at first; but trust me, as soon as I open up a little, you'll see how confident and boisterous I really am.
BDSM and me
I have a major separation in personality when it comes to the bedroom and my every day life. I am definitely into rougher play, including but not limited to CNC, blindfolding/restaining, slapping, choking, and sense deprivation, but I also like making sure my partner is comfortable with whatever is on the table. I prefer to have a master/slave or owner/pet relationship with my key interest being aggressive hedonism. I like to give orders, and I like to integrate sex into every day activities, such as giving orders to cook naked or in an apron, to nurse my cock and tend to me sexually during movies or other relaxing activities, and mid-activity change of pace into deep kissing, groping, sex, etc.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rigger
99% Dominant
99% Master/Mistress
98% Degrader
96% Owner! 
59% Sadist
58% Experimentalist
52% Exhibitionist
33% Vanilla
23% Voyeur
18% Primal (Hunter)
11% Submissive
11% Masochist
Limits
I'm in charge. I enjoy partners that revel either in an environment where they aim to please and require a softer loving master, or aggressively uncertain CNC type relationships, but I'm traditionally not into bratty or primal and I don't care for switching.

Other than that, my hard limits are:

Scat, anal, zoo, blood, and minors.
Update date
Jan 28, 2021
Member since
Jun 22, 2020
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