CagedPup

sub male

33

Single

Hi there, my name's Matt : )
I'm a queer, pansexual submissive Vegan, anarcho-communist. Basically I'm trying to destroy society : p
I'm a little bit 'behind' in life due to previous struggles with depression and anxiety but I believe that these battles have made me more in touch with my feelings and my needs. The year of psychotherapy really helped too!
My life is about constructing meaning and I do that by serving people.
I'm a committed anti-racist activist and I'm passionate about social justice. I still have a lot to learn though and am always grateful for any help with this. Not that I expect others to educate me though.
I'm intelligent and I love to read, especially anything postmodern or any classical Russian literature.
Philosophy is a passion of mine and I'd like to advocate for P4C in our schools as well as a number of other reforms.
I'd also like to write a book one day about the sociology of BDSM. I think there's a lot of untapped potential there and a lot we can learn about the human condition from it.
Feel free to ask me anything : )
I'm very open about my life and the struggles that I've faced but some things are reserved only for those who I trust. If you touch upon the latter and I don't know you well enough yet then I can just tell you and it's all good so yeah, ask away ^_^

BDSM is an emotional need for me. Kinky fuckery is fun but that comes second to my deep need to be subjugated and to serve.
I'm a submissive/slave and whilst I can switch, I don't identify as one as it's not something I could ever sustain for extended periods of time whereas my submission is something that I have to express.
I would eventually like to live in a 24/7 TPE relationship.
My owner can be anyone from across the gender spectrum and appearances aren't too important to me either.
What is important is that they're also intelligent, kind and committed to making the world a better place.
There has to be at least compatibility in terms of kinks though, naturally so here's some of my favourites:

Bondage (especially heavy bondage like chains and cages), TPE, discipline, pet play, humiliation and degradation play, being treated like livestock, pleasing my owner and making them proud of me, being nurtured, service, empowering and worshipping my owner.

My intelligence could be utilised in a number of ways, I believe. I can cook a little but there's always room for improvement there. I give good massages. I have a keen eye for editing and I'm good with both numbers and language. I'm mostly an open book though and I think I'm worth the effort put in to train me. I think I'll make a very grateful, obedient and loyal slave and would thrive under the right kind of dominant.

My biggest stumbling block is my own neurosis and at times, self-doubt (although I've made a lot of progress in this area).

I'm willing to relocate for the right kind of owner.

I haven't had too much experience. I had a domme for a short while, who was previously a professional domme, and it gave me such a vicarious thrill just to clean her flat for her. She saw how happy it made me and told me that I was a 'natural sub'. Unfortunately things didn't work out as I found her to be too cold emotionally.

I have, however, done a lot of reading on and around the subject and have also been to a few play 'n' munches. (Getting flogged and caged in front of others was amazing. Maybe I'm a little bit of an exhibitionist too?)

Thank you for reading.

Hard limits:

Blood play, extensive vomit play, needles, cutting, sounding, anything illegal or involving others non-consensually

Soft limits:

Age play, making me puke a little perhaps.

My ability to love myself without qualms.

May 23, 2021

Jul 7, 2020