DarkLia
sub female

United States
Age
47
About me
Hello All. I am Lia. I am married. I am always upfront about that. I am 43 and a mom of grown boys. I am not here "looking" for a Dom to train me. I also do not play with random men online.  If you do not take the time to read my profile or send me a greeting of "hey" you probably won't get a response. Or It will be a shitty snarky snotty response.  It seems lazy and unconfident.  

If you are one of those Doms that expects a woman to submit after a few messages. Please just do not message me. Also. messaging me asking me if I am still "looking"  *cringe*   Please don't be that guy.  

I am a very respectful person, but, I do NOT deal well with men who try to Dom me or order me and I do not deal well with dumb, whiny, oversensitive men.   Now, that does not mean I do not like men with manners who are a gentleman and treats a woman softly. BIG difference.

More about me: I love to read. Currently ready "The Eye of the World"  
I love to garden. Still learning tho.  
Music!!!!!!  I love it. Jazz. Blues. Pop. Rock. Oldies. Classical. Rap. and yes even Country.  Music feeds my soul 

I am a pagan with some interest in Wicca. But I do not identify as Wiccan.  Mostly Pagan or witchy. 
BDSM and me
The reason I not "looking" is. I am a demisexual. SO it takes a long time for me to get to know someone and to make that connection that would be needed in this dynamic. I am also sapiosexual. I am not a traditional sub. Meaning I do not just submit or do as I am told just because you are a Dom. I am however courteous and have manners. I am a huge fan of high protocols and proper decorum. Please do not message me asking me what I am looking for or if I want to be trained. This will get you an eye roll. I hate putting myself in a box. But I am more a middle bratty princess with submissive tendencies. Yes. Thats right. I do better with Daddy Doms.

Again. I am not looking. But if something were to develop.  It would be online.  ONLINE ONLY
Limits
degradation. humiliation. pain. watersports. anythin illegal. no branding.
Update date
Jul 8, 2020
Member since
Jul 7, 2020
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