Hello All. I am Lia. I am married. I am always upfront about that. I am 43 and a mom of grown boys. I am not here "looking" for a Dom to train me. I also do not play with random men online. If you do not take the time to read my profile or send me a greeting of "hey" you probably won't get a response. Or It will be a shitty snarky snotty response. It seems lazy and unconfident.
If you are one of those Doms that expects a woman to submit after a few messages. Please just do not message me. Also. messaging me asking me if I am still "looking" *cringe* Please don't be that guy.
I am a very respectful person, but, I do NOT deal well with men who try to Dom me or order me and I do not deal well with dumb, whiny, oversensitive men. Now, that does not mean I do not like men with manners who are a gentleman and treats a woman softly. BIG difference.
More about me: I love to read. Currently ready "The Eye of the World"
I love to garden. Still learning tho.
Music!!!!!! I love it. Jazz. Blues. Pop. Rock. Oldies. Classical. Rap. and yes even Country. Music feeds my soul
I am a pagan with some interest in Wicca. But I do not identify as Wiccan. Mostly Pagan or witchy.
The reason I not "looking" is. I am a demisexual. SO it takes a long time for me to get to know someone and to make that connection that would be needed in this dynamic. I am also sapiosexual. I am not a traditional sub. Meaning I do not just submit or do as I am told just because you are a Dom. I am however courteous and have manners. I am a huge fan of high protocols and proper decorum. Please do not message me asking me what I am looking for or if I want to be trained. This will get you an eye roll. I hate putting myself in a box. But I am more a middle bratty princess with submissive tendencies. Yes. Thats right. I do better with Daddy Doms.
Again. I am not looking. But if something were to develop. It would be online. ONLINE ONLY
degradation. humiliation. pain. watersports. anythin illegal. no branding.