PlottHound

Agender

Assigned female at birth agender/nonbinary, pansexual. Very queer and kinky. In earlyish twenties. Switchy switch leaning heavily on Dom.

I'm living in the US but recently moved - never been involved in a BDSM community not based in my country of original citizenship. I have more experience/far prefer topping than subbing/bottoming, but not opposed to subbing/bottoming at all. I firmly believe that one must be able to talk about sexual experiences without any expectations of actually engaging in said activity. Open to online play partners, not looking for long term partners though. Can't do in person right now with the pandemic and whatnot.

For potential partners: My preference for my partner is in the order of a switch(leaning heavily on sub), a sub, a dom. No masters or slaves please. Please feel prepared to get to know me outside of the BDSM context for a while.

Not welcome if you're misogynist, racist, queerphobic, transphobic, ableist. Will judge you harshly for those.
Not doing anything, either as a Dom or a sub, that will leave permanent damage to mind or body.
Specific limit due to above: As a Dom/top, I'm not experienced enough to engage in any potentially dangerous kinks such as knife or edge play, or bondage beyond simple tying of the wrist or arms. I will not engage in any intense degradation, humiliation or other mental restrictions unless I know the participating sub very well and I'm in close vicinity to provide aftercare.
The same limits hold when I'm subbing/bottoming, plus I can't deal with pain at all.
Regardless of what it is, DEFINITELY NOT doing anything without thorough discussion and explicit consent of all parties involved.
Prefer other kinky acts over sex, LOVES aftercare (both giving/receiving).

Jul 8, 2020

Jul 8, 2020