To the dominant who messaged me today: I don't know you. I likely never will. And given our brief exchange, I am fine with that. 'Perception is everything,' you said. That was true. And my perception of you is that I am not the right sub for you.
You see, not every sub exists to serve you. And if you are indeed looking for a lovely lady sub to offer her submission to you, I suggest you learn that oh-so-vital lesson.
'I know what you are.' If that were true, you would know submission to a dominant is a gift offered by the sub. It cannot be taken or demanded. I am a submissive man, yes. That is part of what I am, but not the whole.
'Don't be so emotional, lol.' Emotion. Emotion is what drives many submissives. Passion is an emotion. Submission is an emotion. If you want something emotionless, I suggest the sexual health section of any drugstore or Walmart. Or online; it's the biggest shopping weekend globally. I'm sure you can get an excellent deal on a toy. One that can give you want you need without the messy emotions you wish to avoid.
Yes, I am emotional. Humans, for the most part, are. We are complex emotional beings, not robots.
Yes, even submissives have emotions. We are more than holes to be filled (even if we enjoy having those filled). We are wants and needs and drives and desires and hungers and so very much more, all of which is born of emotion. Because we are human first, submissive second.
