I have had an interest in bdsm my entire life (especially the mental aspect) There is nothing on this planet like the intense feelings and emotions 2 people can share when deeply entwined in that perfect scenario.
Anyone can bark orders and swing a belt - the mind is where the transformation takes place - and sends the pain signal to a different space.(thats mine, dont steal it).
I am tall and thin - 6'6", middle age, white guy - safe, sane (ish) and still very much playful and young at heart.
I am caring, compassionate, honest, and "hard" working.