Witch's musings

I was gob smacked when I first discovered that some men actually desire to be kept in chastity. All the men I have dated have never wanted it. But I have discovered that chastity mixed with heavy teasing and orgasm denial are the most effective way to express feminine power over a man. And it turns me on immensely. I actually feed off of the spiritual energy of arousal that is created when I tease. It keeps me young. My last boyfriend hated chastity.  He complained of chaffing, discomfort, and sleeplessness. I didn’t leave him in for longer than a few days at a time. One month was his longest period. His health was my responsibility so I am careful about longer sentences. I use chastity as a punishment when I feel a boy needs to focus more on me. Boy, does it work. My ex always exhibited the confident easygoing masculinity of an alpha male but when he was in chastity I saw him transform into a meeker and more attentive man. He seemed to shrink in stature when he was locked. At the same time, after locking him, I instantly felt six inches taller. I especially loved going to parties or get-togethers with friends while he was in chastity. Normally, he was quite gregarious. However, when he was locked he tended to hover in the background obediently watching to see if I needed anything. The first time I noticed this personality change I also noted a change in myself. I am naturally flirtatious with men in public, but seeing him reduced brought out an even more sexually provocative side to my nature. We were at a party that was partially filled with the young male college friends of the son of our host. One young man seemed especially enamored of me despite our age difference. Oh, I had so much fun flirting with him while my ex helplessly watched from across the room. It wasn’t necessary to do anything else but flirt to reinforce the message that I had much more sexual power than my sub. I could feel his burning lust for me even from a distance. Other than enjoying myself, stimulating his need was the point of it all. I learned a lot in that moment about both of us. And when we got home I immediately bound him and used his body while teasing and denying him. His role and my role became much clearer. His chastity empowered me while at the same time making him a more malleable slave.