So it's funny how in life you can get slightly frustrated at things and at such said times you ask seemingly random questions to the universe in which you expect no answer at all. An example of this would be "How can I figure out how to best fix my pup's lives and enhance them for their benefit?" You ask yourself this while also wondering how when you as a leader know you are the teacher and educator for them, but yet who do you turn to in order to learn new things? All very good legit questions, to which of course you don't really have answers for other than the internet. You turn there and out of nowhere while scrolling along you happen across a useful and very helpful blog. You talk to someone who is incredibly helpful and gives you ideas to help you learn.
So you decide to make a list of questions based on the knowledge you gained and questions you should know that will help further others development and your training for them. As you learn more about them new questions come up so of course your format changes. You ask regular questions like age, what do you like and dislike in BDSM and limits as per normal which helps but also vanilla stuff so you can plan day trips, hang out days and possibly dates in the future. What they trip over and really throws them off are questions about favorites, food, colors, numbers, and animals or even if there are problems what signs to look for or recognize.
So after gathering data and then rewriting the format into a style in which is kept easily and orderly, reading back over it all you see patterns emerge that you normally would never have otherwise known. Connections that normally are over looked that bring your people closer together and is very useful.
It also got me thinking as well. For those of you who read my blog and may, or may not know by now (if you are curious about it contact me privately), we have a condition called DID or Dissociative Identity Disorder formerly called Multiple Personality Disorder. Basically many different people in one shared body. While doing this information collecting and writing I got to thinking that while it was good to know about the others, it would also be good to know about ourselves inside using the same basic format. Find out more about everyone to further understanding.
Hence my earlier questions of "How can I figure out how best to fix my pup's lives and enhance them for their benefit?" As well as wondering where to turn to as a leader to learn new things have both been answered by the universe if not in the direct way, most obvious or expected. This goes to show that one can never stop learning new things and that the universe is always listen whether we think so or not. Always be careful because if you ask a question it will be answered like it or not.
--Chester--