One thing I love about this site is how fast it can take you down a rabbit hole and before you know it you've read dozens of articles on locktober the origin ( supposedly 2015 no fap boards) the spreading the adoption by the chastity community and then naturally into the BDSM community.
I had never heard of such a thing before until this October 1st. When I saw the lock on my profile that day I was like well I'm not in a relationship right now, nor do I care to look so I will be glad to do the challenge, it isn't really much of one if you already live sorta celibate.
But then I started to think more deeply this event was started for locking men is there an equivalent ideology for females? Sure some things exist but as is discussed in the article for 24/7 locking by this own site for female bodies its impractical and perhaps even a health risk. UTIs periods the proximity of the vagina to the anus lots of problems.
So what does female locktober look like. Well for me A I am not only not going to seek but out right refuse any attempts at sexual encounter.
If I had a person I was with in following the tradition I'd let them give me permission to access and release that part of my womanhood, but since I had no one to give the key it's kinda like an intense vow of chastity.
Yet that's not enough to really make the month prove my devotion, no I gotta strain somehow. Reading about how the concept was to increase the bonding and dominance between male submissives and female dominants I read lots of ideas.
But very few with women.
Yet most of them dealt with women testing, or teasing men to get them into a state of frenzy, and then having the say on if they would be allowed out to play.
How to do a similar thing as a woman. Ah well I started masturbating more frequently in the last two years after having never before ( raised Catholic and had body issues) how about I still masturbate like I typically would a couple of times a week but Instead of going until I'm satisfied which is usually 3 or more orgasms since the first one always just gets me way more horney.
I will edge myself up to the first orgasm then stop -- no let down, no ease off it dead stop 🛑.
Make my body get so aroused that not orgasming is akin to suffering. Having that level of dedication self control and tolerance towards sexual denial has the power to change my mind and lust forever, sure I been and have edged before but the point is then to often have a bigger orgasm later.
Well I think 3 weeks of being edged to the brink at least 12 or so times with no orgasms will clearly lead to November starting off wet that's for sure.
Isn't that what locktober is really about, going through an experience that is supposed to mean something and be transformative.
So I apologize if I'm really having a tough time this month, but I think afterwards I will be sharpened for my devotion.
Thanks for making locktober a thing in my life cage.
