I saw a question about where does this come from?
I figured isn't it obvious? It comes from out inner spirit, and the person writing talked about being vanilla until.
Here's the thing I believe everyone has a little kink in them at minimum but a combination of: religion, society, and our own self shame, with fear of judgement compel us to be disingenuous of what we want.
My first sexual fantasy came when i was a child somewhere between 12-14 I remember watching the space jam movie and wanting to be lola bunnie having sex with bugs bunny⁉️😅
It was like where the hell did any of that even come from! I didn't even think of true physical sex before let alone graphically and clearly.
I always liked buggs a ton his charming quick wit, his sense of humor, his ability to get outta any sticky situation, his confidence, I had always thought of him as just the coolest! I had a crush on a cartoon character for awhile but I never thought of him as male or having sex with him he was just a cool Warner brothers character I liked clearly too much...
When I saw him desire a female for certain attributes I was like woah that's awesome and sexy wouldn't it be cool to have the attention and affection of buggs?
Did I want to get into henti, or comic porn or want to have sex with a cartoon rabbit. Hell no! I don't even now liking to admit I find males of any sort attractive, my feelings were inside me waiting for a moment to strike.
I am not proud of admitting it but I think we all should strive to be more honest with others and ourselves. Note by seeing the large online sexy fandoms around cartoons and video game character a I must not be alone in it being a kink.
I think BDSM in much the same way. We all are more complicated and varied then possibly known and once something speaks to us we can choose to shun it, or embrace it. I personally believe we should embrace the truth more, not only would we be happier but those around us would be as well. Since repressing leads to anxiety.
We are only sure of one spin on this planet let's make it a blast for us and those around us who we love. Be cool with your weird it is what makes you unique and ultimately interesting.
Best,
Icegirl