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Me just sharing what comes to mind.
2 years ago. November 7, 2022 at 3:44 AM

I write a post about hating myself and how confusing life is and i get like double digit likes and quite a few comments.

 

I visit a dungeon two days in a row and have one of the best weekends in my life and like hardly a word.

 

I do find it odd how it seemed people here seem to more willing to try and lift someone up when they are down which is good but a hug and good job when someone is genuinely happy and having some fun experiences its like eh not interested.

 

Also some of the people I have chatted on this website that extended into real life contacts didn't seem happy for me or interested. 

 

Its kinda funny to see how people who pretended to be your friends quickly start to lose interest when they don't think they will get to be your top your dom your play partner or more.

 

I am on a BDSM website for crying out loud did people think I wouldn't enjoy a dungeon? Or make friends or find fun man O got invited to after parties that seemed to kick off even more fun experiences but I had work to do for school.

 

Anyway this is just venting i am glad many of you tried to lift me up when I was feeling like shit but I wish you could be happy for me when I'm having a good time as well. 

Submissively Your's​(sub female) - Definitely happy for you. I have berm wanting to go but not alone. I would love to go with you next time. Let me know@
2 years ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - I don't know when or where you live i am planning to go this upcoming Saturday Make play happen is the motto (don't wanna use the name incase they arent for the added publicity. The club has a 4.8 on goggle)

It ks a private club and although I have witnessed plenty of sex and mutual masterbation this isn't a sex club its a BDSM lifestyle club.

There's a difference for example for me kink and sex are mutually exclusive in a way I will top for almost anyone and I'm working on my trust and bottom skills but being a demisexual I wouldn't have sex with anyone I didn't feel deeply emotionally connected to.

So asked me to whip cane you or drag a razor blade across your body lets fucking go! But even something as small as rubbing your nipples or sucking on them that for me takes time to feel comfortable doing since that i put in the sexual bucket.

I am in the application process of being a member so you might have an issue you might have email them through there website links exctera follow the page they have rules.

The key ones are because its so close to DC you can't have your phone out without a DM there's a high need for privacy additionally of you feel uncomfortable yellow red safeword are the calls but if you feel the negotiation between you and a top/ dominant isn't going well you can call a DM over but they can't negotiate for you.

You will find them on the website if you look into it there's quite a few. But they all serve the purpose of making it a chill comfortable place where its safe to do your thing and it doesn't have to be sexual in the slightest or you could meet the man or woman of your dreams climb the loft and get bent over and fuck infront of an entier room of people.

They aren't going to stop anything consensual from happening were adults and they treat people as such its why I already love the vibe rather your into safe sane consent or risk aware consent kink bottom line is don't agree if you can't handle something.

Its funny when I was telling a few of my more sex positive friends I was gonna go in real life they were all freaking out like little babies.

I had no idea how telling my real life friends I was going to a "dungeon/ play space" they were going to turn into such judgmental babies afraid of there own shadows.

Like what do they think happens you walk in and someone starts beating on you? This isn't hell its headonist if anything people wanna please each other its a building full of relatively kinky or interested parties involved that wish to have fun with each other no more no less.

In the space no one would put there hands on you in anyway shape or form that wasn't asked for first and all things considered I think it makes it better then the world outside of the club.
2 years ago
WhatamIfightingfor​(dom male){CurvyB} - Comment deleted by poster.
2 years ago
ozark hiker girl​(sub female){Owned by E} - Lol I was late to the party congratulating you on having a wonderful time but I blame the bronchitis. I just wasn't on here, but I thought about you.
2 years ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - Oh cool thank you it was a great time overall how are you doing..
2 years ago

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