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2 years ago. November 28, 2022 at 2:04 PM

Just read a 68 page research article on the most effective techniques used to stimulate female sexual gratification through pentration.

 

He is the article link if you wanna read the information yourself

4 female sex techniques proven to enhance pleasure

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8046227/

 

It is well sourced and had no conflict of interests just an acknowledgement that very little attention has been given to women in this area and it seeks to help acknowledge sex as a fundamental right for women and thus women need to and should know how to better enjoy sexual gratification.

 

I shall mention the techniques and talk about my own experience or lack there off with them.

 

The first they addressed was angling which they describe as titling the hips or positing the implement to hit a specific area that feels good often with a pelvic tilt down or up to make the thrust / insertion more shallow or deep.

 

Personally have fallen into this technique naturally since never heard of it specifically before but would do something that clearly relates. When I'm in the mood to be penterated and enjoying it often times it feels good but doesn't get me over the top. So one of my personal tactics is once my muscles naturally start to clamp and grab is to use my hips as leverage so that I can pull on the object, normally I tilt my hip towards my face while arching my lower back.

 

I assume the strength with which I can do this might not be as pleasurable for a guy since it feels almost like a clamp tugging and constricting tighter and tighter and then I think I eventually get the pressure and angle just perfect and it hits somewhere nice and sensitive and what was once me in an almost tug of war with the implement turns into me going limp and having total body contractions

 

The second technique talked about is rocking this is where while there is an implement inside there is a deep pentration with no thrust but a rubbing of contact with the external so the person is filled while having clitoris and vulva stimulation.

 

I know as a lesbian who used a harness perhaps with too much enjoyment I have used this very technique on the majority of my female sex partners after enough thrusts to have them satisfied of that sensation I have noticed often they don't want more but they don't want removal either.

 

Now from my own experience I can tell the feeling of being filled is nice but yeah anything that doesn't have some level of progression can just become boring.

So what would I do?  When I'm inside them I would often make little twitch like motions that are by design made to tease and surprise also to mimick a total body orgasm which often pleases women quite alot. If they ever pulled me tight then iy would press my pubic bone into there's and rub genitals while ensuring the pho cock stayed in and often using it as a leverage point to get a better grind for more direct and often intense contact.

 

Alot of times while using "rocking" since I am not a guy the pleasure I get from it is to see the partner enjoying themselves you can tell if I am really aroused because I would go to my oral fixation and thus suck there breasts or nibble on their neck or slowly trace their body with kisses and polite sucking.

 

Shallowing is the technique on the list that I never really utilized to it's full extant. Shallowing focuses on the fact that the majority of female nerves are actually in the first couple of inches of the vaginal opening. Apparently the joke of just the tip can actually do more then I ever thought.

 

The one thing that kinda lent me to realize this was when I would do oral women seemed to really like being penetrated with my tongue 😛 often I would upon going inside slowly bring it out while licking up towards the clitoris often applying a little suction with my lips and or a tiny nibble for the more adventurous women.

 

I never used the technique on myself and to be frank don't know if I could handle it lol 🤪. I am naturally nervous of my sexuality and body so to kinda tease edge and maybe even get it hyper aroused makes me feel so confused. Like I am sure I'd like it but that's bad for some reason ahh people who grew up not only Catholic but LGBTIQQAA and kinky I have so much to unpack I am most of the way there but still need a tiny bit (enormous 🤣) amount of work.

 

The last of using clitoris stimulation while being penetrated is there a female on earth that doesn't know that? 

 

Like it was only something like 86% of women do it so like is that 14% unaware?

 

Because I am gonna say it right now fuck yeah that works when I am in the mood to be penetrated which is rare and I just wanna go for raw pleasure I have a dildo inserted with a wide flat basd and then i take my hatachi wand and I grind that mother fucker like I am trying to snap the head off while in a perfect world keeping some contact with both the dildo and clit as much as possible. Even me someone who kinda prides themselves on being hard to please can't quite get enough of this, in fact it single handedly got me comfortable with penetration because the added stimulus made things feel better I try not to over do it much since like anyone who gets an extreme pleasure I'd hate to become desensitized to the stimulus.

 

I think it does definitely let me know that I need to and perhaps should work that more into play with someone I'm with in the future. Of course discussions always needed on what people want but of you haven't done this yet you are missing out girl, go and get it. 

 

Thats the summary and some real world experiences with the 4 ways proven to enhance female pentration pleasure. 

 

Ladies demand them, sex should feel good and men if you're with a woman and not doing them your making a mistake when you could be the best sex a woman's ever had you choose to be basic. 

 

But don't worry I will politely offer to help her 🤪 since

"Most women need direct clitoral stimulation to reach climax; only about 25 to 30 percent of women may climax with vaginal penetration"

 

Many women I know often have issues having climaxes with males I think because many males are self centered and feel if fucking does it for them it must also work for women.

 

Keep thinking that, I love being the best sex a bi girl or an experimenting female ever had. I don't need to rise to any occasion I have a bag of tricks and the stamina of a marathon runner, the passion of a sapphic, the romance of a poet, the balanced flexibility of a Yogi, and the strength and power of a Martial artist.

 

It's a friendly competition 🥺 afterall the goal is to please women what could be more noble. Yet I don't have to fight fair because I don't have a biological limit. 🤣 

 

Bunnie - Lol, great read… informative and funny :) thank you.
2 years ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - Aww thanks bunnie I been being more mt authentic self and its not just on this site its in every aspect of my life.

It first hit awhile ago someone was like you know your really cute and sweet like a cupcake hidden under a pile of sharp pointy armor but I see you.

It was like gerrr yeah while this is a cupcake that doesn't mind hitting with brass knuckles.

In real life being an EMT I have to alpha a lot I am tried of playing a character in my life and not letting people fully know me.

I am sweet and sensitive I was mostly a service top. I love to please people realizing that part of that is also growing in such a way that I can accept myself as a woman and allow others the equal opportunity to know and interact with me has been a real eye opener.

It pleases me that you enjoy me Bunnie I always kinda admired the way your so just you. In many ways you been a role model. Hugs
2 years ago
Bunnie - *hugs* I’m really loving seeing this shift for you :)
2 years ago
IceGirl​(switch female)Verified Account - it's scary at times because accepting myself without judgment or trying to control myself is difficult. I still am having issues with the fact as pan/bi sexually I find men attractive. Not to mention owning that I enjoy being female and I wouldn't have ever wanted to be a male.
2 years ago

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