Mate preference priority model, focuses on the decision-making in partner selection.
Meeting minimum mate preference thresholds can be more important than the overall score.
Both those academic theories explain how I work especially because I'm a demisexual.
I have criteria and although am willing to adapt some others are hard limits.
I am sapiosexual if someone can't say interesting things to me or help keep my mind active there can be no relationship. I am huge into trustworthiness I would rather have someone tell me something I may not want to hear then have them lie. I hate liars more than anything else.
I generally perfer women nonbinary or gender fluid people because I find those people understand and can relate to what I go through better.
I perfer people who are moral I spend my time saving lives if a person doesn't believe that a part of life is what you give back it can't work.
I perfer people who make me laugh Life is tough and I can get down so someone who helps improve my mood is beneficial.
I prefer people who understand late stage capitalism and by extension our society is organized hurts people so its our duty to make it more inclusive.
I am a skeptic by nature so perfer people with critial thinking be it religion political leaders our job is not to obey because person said x but to engage with ideas.
I consider myself a progressive that often means I believe in ideas that are more forward then most democratics for example non violent crime such as independent drug use should be treated with therapy not prison if it endangers them.
I additionally believe like in many other nations all drugs should be legal and help people use safely because a "war on drugs" isn't going to stop people if in the last 50 years it hasn't.
The only thing that has happened by keeping drugs criminalized is make a huge blackmarket that generally is most harmful to low income communities and people with darker skin tones.
3 strikes and forever imprisonment?
Many people have had there lives ruined because they already were struggling with addiction not because they were bad people or couldn't have achieved more in there life without better support Networks.
America has a prison industrial complex I can go on.
It's not that I need someone to agree with my progressive positions I need someone who can at least accept that I am what's known politically as Far Left.
A New York City skeptic atheist with 3 college degrees that was maced at an occupy wall street rally would be way to liberal for most people.
I remember one time when I was going to class at University of Chapel Hill there was this massive anti abortion incident where like dozens of religious zealots were on the campus with like fake babies in jars and screaming at anyone.
I walked up to some young religious people who seemed to wanna harass any young women and we got into a discussion when I said they had no right to tell a woman what to do with there bodies and if that means getting multiple abortions that's totally fine with me so long as the health and welfare of the woman takes priority he spit on me.
The so called people who love life and want to defend it seems that my rights to even share my beliefs should be spit at.
To me it really showed what they think of women. Its one of the reasons I wanted my uterus removed when I was younger the thought of carrying someones child who is grotesque to me gives me nightmares.
Although I am fully aware I might end up alone my personal hero is Alice Stokes Paul she never married and little is known of her romantic life other than she was a bisexual.
I am aware that I might end up the same way its why when I am actually in a relationship I cherish it so much.
I am aware how precious a person who's compatible at all is.
